In this episode of Let’s Talk Surrogacy, Wade Morris, Director of Community Resources at American Surrogacy, pulls back the curtain on the surrogacy industry.
With over 30 years of experience building families and 10 years specifically in surrogacy, Wade offers an insider’s perspective on choosing the right agency, understanding costs, and navigating the journey from start to finish.
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What You’ll Learn:
Why Wait Times Vary So Dramatically
Wade reveals that American Surrogacy matches families in just
1 - 4 months, while some agencies have families waiting 2-4 years.
Major Red Flags at Other Agencies
Learn the warning signs that could cost you years and thousands of dollars:
- Agencies that match before complete screening
- Waitlists with 500-700 families competing for surrogates
- “No upfront fees” promises (often means minimal marketing and poor screening)
Wade explains why these practices lead to failed matches and repeated costs.
Real Timeline & Costs
- 14-20 months total journey
- $100,000 - $200,000+ for surrogacy
- $15,000-$25,000 for IVF
Two Main Programs
American Surrogacy offers two full-service programs: the Limited Risk Program with financial protection against disruptions, and the Foundation Program with lower starting costs.
Why American Surrogacy Stands Out:
When the SEAM escrow fraud collapsed, American Surrogacy absorbed the financial loss and paid all 30 affected families and surrogates out of pocket—something no other agency did.
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