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No one understands surrogacy better than the intended parents and surrogates who have been through it. Read their touching surrogacy stories here.

From Heartbreak to Hope: Gilad and Rebekah’s Surrogacy Journey

After experiencing profound loss, Gilad and Rebekah found a beacon of hope in surrogacy. Their story proves that with the right guidance and support, surrogacy can transform loss into a new beginning.

If you’re ready to begin your surrogacy journey or want to learn more about how surrogacy can change your life, reach out today and get immediate support and clarity.

Continue reading below to learn how surrogacy can transform your path to parenthood.

From Loss to New Beginnings

When Gilad and Rebekah began trying to grow their family, they never anticipated the heartbreaking challenges they would face.

Rebekah experienced an ectopic pregnancy that required emergency surgery—twice in the span of 24 hours. It was a devastating moment, one that ultimately changed the course of their family-building journey.

“Once we realized that us having another pregnancy at home on our own was not an option,” Rebekah shared, “I felt numb. I was still mourning the loss of future pregnancies when we decided on surrogacy. But I think it helped give me a sense of purpose while I was still mourning.”

Navigating Uncertainty: Finding Clarity with American Surrogacy

The early days of the surrogacy process were filled with uncertainty, but as they moved forward, Gilad and Rebekah began to find clarity and hope.

“There’s definitely the numb phase because you don’t know what the next steps will be,” Rebekah explained. “But slowly and surely, you start to get more answers.”

A pivotal moment in their journey came when they spoke with Jade, their surrogacy specialist. “There was just this immediate comfort with her,” Rebekah recalled. “I felt that it breathed life into this situation for us.”

 “American Surrogacy just had options and responsiveness,” Gilad said. “I knew we were getting an agency that genuinely cared.”

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Love Beyond Measure: Their Surrogate and the Birth of Their Son

As the months passed and they prepared to meet their child, the emotions of the journey became even more profound.

The birth of their son was an indescribable moment. “The most unexpected thing for me at the birth of our son was not only this overwhelming sense of love for your son, but I also had this incredible, overwhelming sense of love for our surrogate,” Gilad said.

“I’m staring at my wife. I’m staring at our surrogate. The baby comes out, time stops… and you’re overjoyed.”

A Journey Worth Every Step: Looking Back with Gratitude

The gratitude they feel toward their surrogate is immeasurable. “It’s overwhelming, and how do you say thank you to someone for doing that for you?” Gilad reflected. “Our son would not exist without our surrogate.”

Looking back on their surrogacy experience, Rebekah is grateful for the guidance they received. “I didn’t know how to go through this journey without guidance, and American Surrogacy really guided me—to safety, to happiness, to fulfillment. And I’m eternally grateful for that.”

For Gilad and Rebekah, surrogacy was not just a medical or legal process—it was a deeply emotional journey of resilience, love, and profound gratitude.

Today, they hold their son in their arms, knowing that their path, though difficult, led them exactly where they were meant to be.

Your Journey Could Be Just Beginning

Gilad and Rebekah’s story shows that surrogacy isn’t just a path to parenthood but a deeply transformative experience filled with hope, love and healing.

Their journey reminds us that even in the face of unimaginable loss, the right support and guidance can lead to a beautiful new beginning.

If you’re ready to take the next step toward growing your family, American Surrogacy is here to guide you every step of the way. Contact us today to learn more about how surrogacy can help you turn your dreams of parenthood into reality.

Surrogacy for Gay Parents: Celebrating Pride and Parenthood

Through the stories of surrogacy for gay parents that we’ve worked with, we witness the profound impact of surrogacy and the essence of family.

Family is more than just a biological connection. In today’s diverse and evolving society, stories of gay surrogacy demonstrate the power of love and determination in creating families. These heartfelt journeys of gay intended parents we’ve helped have the family of their dreams highlight the path through the surrogacy process to the joy of parenthood.

Each narrative is a powerful testament to their unwavering commitment and resilience, demonstrating how surrogacy turns dreams of parenthood into reality. Through these stories, we witness the profound impact of surrogacy, fostering acceptance, equality and the true essence of family.

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To learn more about the process of surrogacy for gay parents, fill out our simple form.

Gay Surrogacy Stories from American Surrogacy

Michael and Viet’s Story

For Michael and Viet, becoming parents was the next step in their journey together as a couple. As they considered their family-building options, surrogacy stood out as a way to share a biological connection to their child.

“Surrogacy just gave us an opportunity to complete our family and it completely changed our lives,” says Viet. “We looked at adoption and at the time there was a two year waiting process and the fees were just about the same so we thought why don’t we just go through surrogacy and have someone that is part of me in our family which was something we also really wanted.”

After meeting their surrogate, Alissandra, Michael knew she was the person who they wanted to help grow their family.

“The first meeting with our surrogacy Alissandra I definitely felt like it was an instant connection and it was an amazing match because the reasons why she wanted to this were very heartfelt,” says Michael.

It was as if their family grew by two through surrogacy. “After we started the whole process we just got really close and we were a family I felt,” Viet says.

The birth of Michael and Viet’s son through surrogacy fulfilled them in ways they never could have imagined. Viet recalls the first time he held his son.

“The birth of our son was amazing. Alissandra had just given birth and the nurses handed him to me and I just couldn’t believe after all the years and everything we went through that he was finally here.  I was holding my little boy in my arms and he was perfect.”

“My son has filled a part of my existence and should and heart with a love that I just never knew existed,” Michael adds.

Watch more of their story here.

Nicholas’s Story

Surrogacy for gay parents isn’t limited to couples. Nicholas, a single gay man, wanted to have a family. Having a genetic connection to his child was important to him, but he worried that surrogacy wouldn’t be an option on his own.

“You first say, ‘Forget it; it’s too complicated, it’s too risky,” Nicholas says. “And then you start to talking to some people and understanding that it is possible to do so if you really want to, so then you have to sleep on it — and then one day realize this is not just an option, but you can do it.”

After finding American Surrogacy, Nicholas’s surrogacy specialist presented him with Nichole’s surrogate profile. Within moments of getting to know her, he knew she was the perfect fit. “We talked to each other, and it seemed really natural,” he remembers. “But what made me sure that Nichole was perfect was because she came across really genuine, and she wasn’t doing it for the money but truly to help.”

The day Julian, Nicholas’s son was born, was the day his life changed forever.

“I had been waiting for so long that… when I saw Julian, I was just completely overwhelmed,” Nicholas remembers. “It was such a wonderful experience to see Julian coming into our world.”

Read more of his story here.

How American Surrogacy Facilitates Surrogacy for Gay Parents

 For all of our intended parents, we work tirelessly to help them find the perfect surrogate match as soon as possible.

“Within a few weeks of making first contact, American Surrogacy told us we have a very, very strong match for you,” Michael remembers. “It was a really wonderful match. I wish all intended parents to have such a wonderful match like that.”

We help you find the right surrogate for you by showing you profiles of surrogates who possess the qualities you want in the person who will carry your child. We put the best interests of you and your future child at the forefront.

 “You need someone that you’re going to trust to choose a surrogate for you, and American Surrogacy was the only agency I felt comfortable with and was genuine enough for me to choose over the other agencies,” Nicholas remembers. “I spoke to many surrogacy agencies — small and big — and none of them made me feel the way American Surrogacy made me feel.”

We’re here for you every step of the way throughout your surrogacy journey.

“The staff at American Surrogacy made our experience really good. We spoke to [our surrogacy specialist] and she was just comfortable to talk to,” says Viet. “She reassured us when we needed it. Every time we called her, she always answered the phone. They’re very supportive and invested in our process.”

“The whole thing is to truly find people like [my surrogacy specialist], who have experience, patience and care for what you go through,” says Nicholas. “This is such a wonderful journey because you realize you’re not alone, and it gets easier than you think.”

Whether you’re an LGBT couple or individual, parenthood is just in reach through our agency. If you’re ready to begin your journey or have questions about surrogacy for gay parents, contact us today.

Benefits of Being a Surrogate

Discover the top five benefits of being a surrogate with our complete guide. We’re ready to help you become a hero in someone else’s story.

In a world filled with misconceptions and societal stigmas, the path to becoming a surrogate is often misunderstood. Beyond the stereotypes lies a reality where becoming a surrogate can be a rewarding, life-changing experience.

To help you understand how gratifying surrogacy is, let’s take a closer look at what being a surrogate really means.

If you want to learn more about the benefits of being a surrogate mother, then contact us online now or text us at 913-204-0224 to connect with us today. You can also watch a surrogate journey to get a better grasp on what to expect, or connect directly with surrogates through our Instagram community.

Top 5 Benefits of Being a Surrogate

1. The Surrogate Journey Moves at Your Own Pace

One of the benefits of being a surrogate is that you have a unique sense of control over the process, allowing you to navigate your journey at your own pace. The process will align with your personal needs and preferences, letting you pave the way for how you want your experience to go.

This sense of empowerment emphasizes how positive and rewarding the surrogate journey can be. You can move through each stage of the journey with confidence knowing that you’re in control.

“Because of surrogacy, I now feel more empowered than I’ve ever felt and I can carry that feeling of empowerment into every aspect of my life. It’s been such a huge gift.”– Jade, one of our surrogate mothers.

2. You Get to Earn Meaningful Income for Your Family

Surrogates play not only a vital role in creating families but can also earn meaningful income for their families. One of the benefits of being a surrogate includes receiving compensation for the time and energy you commit to the process. You can use this compensation to significantly improve your finances while also making parenthood possible for a deserving family.

You can earn $50,000-$110,000 in surrogate compensation to help you with life-changing expenses such as paying off debts, establishing a college fund for your kids, or buying your dream car. Whatever it may be, this benefit of being a surrogate will help you cover all aspects of the surrogacy journey, relieving you of any financial burden.

“I was able to be more present with my kids and that was to me the biggest thing. I was able to go on vacations with them and if I needed to take time off from work I wasn’t as stressed about it. Carrying a human is a job so it’s okay to be rewarded for that job.” –Jade, one of our surrogate mothers.

3. You Become a Hero in Someone Else’s Story

Being a surrogate means becoming a hero in the eyes of intended parents. Your contribution to bringing a new life into the world can have a lasting impact on the lives of those who have dreamed of becoming parents. Knowing that you have the power to bring the joy of parenthood to a deserving couple can be an incredibly rewarding feeling.

One of the benefits of being a surrogate mother is that you get to play a pivotal role in creating a family and bringing happiness to intended parents.

“I chose to be a surrogate because I wanted to have a bigger purpose. I wanted to help someone in a way that not many can and really impact their lives and my life too. There are people who desire to have this one thing that they just can’t have and I couldn’t imagine someone who wants that and not being able to experience it. “– Jade, one of our surrogate mothers.

4. The Modern Surrogacy Process is Guided by Qualified Professionals

One of the more recent benefits of being a surrogate is that the modern process prioritizes the well-being of all parties involved. When you become a surrogate, you can find comfort in knowing that the process is medically safe and guided by experienced professionals.

Our surrogate screening process ensures that you’re ready for the journey ahead. You’ll be provided with personalized medical consultations, screenings and tests that will verify your physical health for the surrogacy journey. With the guidance of dedicated fertility specialists and healthcare professionals, you can count on quality care throughout every step of the process.

“I wanted to have an experienced team behind me someone delegated to helping your find a match. Their support was so strong that I felt confident to take on anything that was coming. American Surrogacy really helped every step of the way it was so beautiful.”- Jade, one of our surrogate mothers.

5. Form Bonds That Will Last a Lifetime

One of the amazing benefits of being a surrogate is that you have the opportunity to form a deep bond with the intended parents. The relationship that you develop can evolve into a connection built on trust, mutual respect and a shared sense of fulfillment.

This bond goes beyond the birth of the child, ensuring a connection that will last a lifetime. Because we offer such a thorough screening process, you can find peace of mind knowing that you’ll be matched with qualified intended parents.

“The best part for me is having that long relationship with them (the intended parents) now. Seeing the experiences that they have and the fun kid that he’s growing to be is powerful to say that I helped do that. Because I was a surrogate I feel like I’m a superhero.” – Allisandra, one of our surrogate mothers.

Although there are many misconceptions out there about surrogacy, the benefit of being a surrogate is that you not only give the gift of parenthood to others but also experience a journey filled with self-reflection, emotional maturity and heroism.

If you’re ready to change lives today, then contact us online now or text us at 913-204-0224 to connect with us.

What You Should Know About Surrogacy Agency Reviews

Surrogacy agency reviews can tell you a lot about an agency. We can tell you what you need to know about finding quality reviews to help make your decision.

Today we rely on reviews for everything. We look at reviews of movies before we go see them, we check out reviews of restaurants to decide where to eat, and we even look up reviews of shampoo before we buy it. So why wouldn’t you look up the surrogacy agency ratings before you commit to one?

If you want more information about what to look for in surrogacy agency reviews, fill out our online form.

Navigating surrogacy agency reviews on the other hand can sometimes be tricky. There’s so much more relying on choosing the correct agency to begin your surrogacy process. This can help determine what you experience. So we’ve put together a guide to help you navigate the reviews.

Reviews vs Testimonials

Clients who had a positive experience are sometimes asked by the agency to offer a testimonial that can be used on the company’s website. These will likely go into more detail and even include a video so you can feel connected to the real people who have been in your shoes. Testimonials are a good way to understand the surrogacy process and learn how the agency works with intended parents and surrogates. Our Instagram page hosts many testimonials from our long-standing surrogates.

Reviews of surrogacy agencies on the other hand are less of a production and may or may not be included on the website. But just like any business, positive reviews are always requested from clients. You can find reviews through Google and other ranking websites. However, it’s important to make sure you are using a reputable third party resource that is not dictated by sponsorships.

Negative Reviews

Negative reviews are more common than positive reviews. Statistically, people are more likely to leave a review if they had a negative experience. While positive reviews are important, negative surrogacy reviews can be just as important to read through. When you read negative reviews and notice patterns of the same situation happening to people over and over again, that might be a sign not to work with that agency.

Fake Reviews

Unfortunately fake reviews can muddle the information as you look through reviews. A fake review will usually have very generic language and information. They will use terms like “good” and “bad.” A fake review might also include incorrect grammar and spelling or the flow of sentences won’t quite make sense. Usually fake surrogacy reviews will be reported and hopefully removed, but they can still slip through the cracks so it’s important to be aware of them.

Find the Right Fit for You

Not every surrogacy agency is the same. Whether it’s the services, people or location, not every agency will be the right fit for everyone. You do not have to go with the first surrogacy agency you find through your research of surrogacy reviews. Take the time to ask questions and interview the people you would be working with. There may be pros and cons to each agency and you will have to weigh which one will ultimately be the best fit for you. Surrogacy is a big commitment and you should feel confident in your decision.

Do Your Research

Ultimately, the best thing you can do for yourself is to do your research before making the commitment to a surrogacy agency. Understanding the surrogacy process and what is expected from you can help you to better understand what is important to you when choosing a surrogacy agency. Once you understand the surrogacy process you will be able to better navigate the negative surrogacy agency reviews to determine if the review is about the process or the agency.

If you’re ready to begin your surrogacy process, contact us today.

Honoring Infertility Awareness Month

June is Infertility Awareness Month. The event was created to help people experiencing infertility discover they aren’t alone and to highlight how they can work through this common diagnosis.

If you’re considering using surrogacy to grow your family, you or your partner may be working through infertility. We want you to know that you’re not alone, and we’re here to support you through whatever stage you’re at in your family-building journey.

Contact us today to connect with a surrogacy specialist who can refer you to a counselor specializing in infertility. With Infertility Awareness Month on the horizon, now is the perfect time to find a professional to help you work through your feelings.

Keep reading to learn about Infertility Awareness Month, how to honor it, and more.

What is Infertility Awareness Month?

June is Infertility Awareness Month. The month-long event was created to bring awareness to how common infertility is and to spotlight the treatments that can help solve some infertility issues.

We’re choosing to honor Infertility Awareness Month by detailing who is affected by it and how people overcome the condition.

Who Experiences Infertility?

According to the National Library of Medicine, 10% to 15% of couples in the United States experience infertility.  Men and women experience infertility at the same rate (10%), and sometimes, a couple’s infertility challenges are because of a combination of several factors.

The following are a few other facts about infertility:

  • A doctor can diagnose infertility when a couple cannot conceive after 12 months of regular, unprotected sex.
  • A doctor can check men and women for infertility through a variety of tests.
  • There are several infertility treatments men, and women can pursue.

Common Infertility Treatments

One of the important aspects of Infertility Awareness Month is ensuring people affected by this common condition know their options. One way to handle infertility is through treatment.

The following are just some of the effective infertility treatments people try:

  • Infertility Medications: Certain medications can be prescribed to men and women to help resolve certain infertility issues.
  • Infertility Surgeries: Men and women may undergo certain surgeries that can help repair internal infertility causes.
  • Assisted Reproductive Technologies:  Recently, IUI and IVF have become more common. These procedures can help couples overcome many infertility challenges and help them conceive.

Embracing Surrogacy After Infertility

One of the final aspects of acknowledging Infertility Awareness Month is working through your feelings on infertility and deciding your next steps.

Working Through Infertility Grief

Choosing when you’re ready to move from infertility treatments to another family-building option like surrogacy isn’t a simple decision.

You and your partner will experience several intense emotions during this time. You may even decide to work with an infertility counselor to help process your feelings.

Even if you decide not to continue your family-building journey this year, you can use this time to work through your grief and allow yourself time to heal.

Choosing Surrogacy

If you and your partner determine that you’re ready to move on from infertility to another family-building option and choose to go forward with surrogacy, congratulations! Surrogacy is a wonderful choice, and it has helped many people become parents.

One of the benefits of working with American Surrogacy for your surrogacy journey is that our agency can provide the essential benefits needed to help you succeed.

The following are some of the most important benefits our agency can provide you:

  • Surrogacy Screening: We’re dedicated to ensuring that hopeful intended parents and prospective surrogates are ready to start the surrogacy process. We do this by coordinating your psychological, medical, and physical screenings.
  • Matchmaking: When you work with our agency, you can expect an average match time of 30 to 90 days. We maintain this by prescreening all hopeful intended parents and surrogates, providing in-house marketing, and keeping a 1:1 intended parent-to-surrogate ratio.
  • Case Management: We will organize and manage your case so you can spend your time focusing on yourself and your surrogacy partner during your surrogacy journey.
  • 24/7 Support: American Surrogacy will provide you with continuous support from licensed social workers from the beginning to the end of their journey.
  • Financial Certainty and Transparency: Our agency offers a transparent fixed cost of $149,900 that covers our services, gestational carrier fees, and medical and legal costs. We also provide a Parent Protection Fee and will organize your journey’s variable fees.

Reach Out to Us Today

This June, we hope you can honor Infertility Awareness Month by caring for yourself. If you need extra support during this time, you can contact us anytime, and we’ll refer you to an infertility counselor who can help you process your emotions.

You aren’t alone. There are plenty of intended parents just like you, struggling with very similar situations. Connect with them through our Instagram.