There’s plenty for intended parents to consider when preparing for a surrogacy match:
- Which professional will provide the best match for us?
- What kind of genetic connection should the surrogate have to our child?
- Are there things like personality traits, hobbies or education level that matter to us?
Of the many things to spend serious time thinking about, race is not one of them. If you’re an intended parent, this may seem like a blunt statement. Is there any room for disagreement here?
While there are many topics that allow for each person to find the right answer for their unique situation, this isn’t one of them. If you are an intended parent, the race of the gestational carrier does not matter when you are looking for a surrogate match.
Race and Surrogacy: Understanding the Process
There are two types of surrogacy: gestational vs. traditional. In this modern process, the vast majority of surrogacies are gestational. In fact, traditional surrogacy is not allowed in many states, and most professionals, including American Surrogacy, will only assist in gestational surrogacies.
Traditional surrogacy uses an intended father’s or donor’s sperm but not an intended mother’s or donor’s egg. This means the surrogate is the biological mother of the child. Because of this, there is a greater risk for intended parents and additional required steps, such as legally adopting the child.
In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate has no biological connection to the child. A sperm and egg donor are used in a process that is considered safer and more ethical by most professionals.
What does this have to do with race? From a practical standpoint, this means that the child will not inherit genetic traits from your surrogate — just from the sperm and egg used in the IVF process. The race of the surrogate does not matter as it pertains to your child’s genetic makeup.
The Screening Process for Surrogates
Entering into a surrogacy contract is an exciting step in the journey. It’s also completely normal to feel nervous and have reservations. This could be a place where the question about race arises.
However, it’s not a question that needs to be asked. This starts with trust in your surrogacy professional. American Surrogacy’s screening process is incredibly thorough and designed to give every intended parent peace of mind about their surrogacy partner.
Our process ensures that all surrogates are both physically and emotionally prepared for the unique demands of this journey. Alongside intensive background screening, all surrogates must meet a strict set of requirements, such as:
- Be 21-38 years old
- Have a BMI of 19-32
- Not smoke, use illicit drugs or be exposed to secondhand smoke
- Have had at least one successful pregnancy but no more than five cesarean births
- Be currently raising a child
- Had no major complications in previous pregnancies
- Have completed a pap smear in the last year
- Not be receiving state assistance
- And more
With these requirements, we can generally ensure that a surrogate is prepared, both mentally and physically, for a successful pregnancy. You may notice that race is not a part of the screening process, and that is because, unlike these other factors, it has no bearing at all on the potential success of a gestational carrier.
Of all the questions that are worth asking about a potential surrogate, race is not on the list.
What Does Matter when Entering a Surrogacy Match
You may be wondering what you, as an intended parent, should wonder about when considering a surrogacy contract. This is a great question. Each situation is unique, and there may be specific things you would like in a surrogacy partner.
Many intended parents ask questions like these to a potential surrogate:
- What is your family like?
- What are your interests and hobbies?
- What was your education like?
- Why did you decide to become a surrogate?
- What were your previous pregnancies like?
- What are you looking forward to most about the journey?
Speak with a surrogacy specialist today about the steps you can take to find the perfect match for your journey.
A Sign Surrogacy May Not Be Right for You
Surrogacy is amazing, but it’s not for everyone. There are many available family-building options. If you remain convinced that the race of the surrogate should be a factor in your match, then this could be a sign that surrogacy is not right for you.
For all the reasons stated above — and many more — it is clear that race should not be on your mind when considering a match for a surrogacy partner.