No one begins a surrogacy journey expecting loss, but sometimes, heartbreak becomes part of the story. A surrogate miscarriage is one of the most emotionally complex experiences a woman can face.

If you’re navigating this path or preparing for the “what ifs”—please know this: you are not alone, and you are not to blame. At American Surrogacy, we believe that real support means showing up for the hardest parts of the journey, not just the milestones.

If you’re navigating a surrogate miscarriage or simply want to know you’ll be supported no matter what, our team is here for you. Reach out to a surrogacy specialist today for support that puts your wellbeing first.

What Happens if You Miscarry During Surrogacy?

A surrogate miscarriage can be a heartbreaking and overwhelming experience, but surrogates are never expected to face it alone.

When a miscarriage occurs, the first step is medical care. Your OB-GYN or fertility clinic will provide the necessary procedures, testing, and follow-up to ensure your health and safety.

Legally, your surrogacy contract outlines what happens in this situation, including how intended parents are informed and how compensation is handled. Emotionally, the agency becomes your lifeline.

The emotional and physical recovery timeline varies, and we honor each surrogate’s unique path forward with unwavering support.

Is It My Fault? What Every Surrogate Needs to Know About Miscarriage

One of the most painful myths surrounding a surrogate miscarriage is the belief that the surrogate somehow did something wrong.

In reality, miscarriages are common and usually caused by chromosomal or developmental issues that are entirely out of anyone’s control.

At American Surrogacy, we ensure that our surrogates understand from the beginning that they are never to blame if a loss occurs. Our agency provides ongoing emotional support, including access to therapists who specialize in reproductive grief.

We help surrogates navigate feelings of guilt, shame, or confusion with empathy and clinical clarity. Surrogacy is built on courage and generosity. Even in the face of loss, those qualities remain deeply respected and protected.

What Support Do Surrogates Receive After a Pregnancy Loss?

After a surrogate miscarriage, emotional healing and personal care become the top priorities and with American Surrogacy, that support is both immediate and ongoing.

Our surrogates are offered access to licensed mental health professionals who specialize in reproductive loss, so they have a safe, confidential space to process their grief.

We also provide continued case management support, regular check-ins from our team and optional participation in surrogate support groups where shared experiences create comfort and connection.

Every surrogate is different, and so is every healing journey. That’s why our support is never one-size-fits-all. Whether you want space, conversation or ongoing resources, American Surrogacy adapts to your needs, because you deserve to be supported fully, not just medically, but emotionally, too.

Emotional Support Resources After a Surrogacy Loss

Whether you need someone to talk to immediately or prefer quiet reflection with the option to reach out later, we respect your process.

That’s why we connect our surrogates with licensed counselors and support groups while providing ongoing agency communication tailored to your needs.

You can also explore the virtual support groups and forums below.

• Empty Arms Bereavement Support: A free support group for those who have experience a miscarriage or early pregnancy loss. All meeting are through Zoom.
• Rachel’s Gift: Free virtual support groups for those who have experienced miscarriage, stillbirths and infant loss.
• r/Miscarriage: A community for those who have experienced miscarriage to talk about their loss and seek peer support.
• r/PregnancyAfterLoss: A subreddit for those who become pregnant after miscarriage or infant loss.

Why Agency Support Matters During a Surrogate Miscarriage

In the wake of a surrogate miscarriage, having the right agency by your side isn’t just helpful—it’s everything. The emotional, medical, and logistical challenges that follow a pregnancy loss can feel overwhelming.

That’s why surrogates who partner with American Surrogacy receive wraparound care designed to meet every need: emotional counseling, clear communication protocols, legal clarity and heartfelt check-ins that don’t stop after the initial crisis fades.

Without an experienced, empathetic agency, surrogates may be left to navigate grief, legalities, or conversations with intended parents on their own. But with American Surrogacy, you are never alone. We advocate for you every step of the way.

Choosing the right agency means choosing a team that stands beside you when things don’t go as planned—and that’s when it matters most.

What the Surrogacy Contract Says About Miscarriage

Every surrogacy journey begins with a carefully crafted legal agreement and that includes planning for difficult moments like a surrogate miscarriage.

Your contract outlines what happens in the event of a pregnancy loss, including how compensation is handled, who is responsible for medical costs, and how communication with intended parents is managed. This legal clarity is essential: it protects you emotionally and financially during a vulnerable time.

Our agency works closely with experienced surrogacy attorneys to ensure that every surrogate’s rights, health and peace of mind are prioritized in the contract. Knowing that you’re protected allows you to focus on healing, not logistics and reinforces that your agency is with you, every step of the way.

Learn more about surrogacy contracts.

Do Surrogates Get Paid if They Miscarry?

Yes, in most cases, you are compensated up until the miscarriage occurs.

Surrogate miscarriage does not typically negate earned payments, and any escrowed funds are managed per the terms of your contract. American Surrogacy ensures transparency and fairness in all financial matters, so you can focus on recovery without added stress.

Just as with the previous pregnancy, if you and the intended parents decide to try again after your doctor has medically cleared you to do so, payments will resume once a pregnancy is confirmed. You will still receive the full amount of compensation outlined in your contract.

How Intended Parents Are Involved When a Surrogate Miscarriage Occurs

One of the hardest parts of a surrogate miscarriage is the emotional weight of telling the intended parents. You might worry about their reaction or feel like you let them down.

While intended parents may feel deeply saddened, surrogates need to know: they are not to blame. Miscarriage is no one’s fault. Intended parents often respond with empathy, gratitude and heartbreak rather than anger.

Your surrogacy specialist can provide sensitive mediation and emotional support to help all sides navigate this complex moment. Our agency plays a key role in helping surrogates and intended parents communicate with clarity and care, while also respecting each individual’s grieving process.

Surrogates are never left to carry the emotional weight or explain difficult news alone. We also help intended parents process their grief while reinforcing their continued respect for the surrogate’s bravery and effort.

In many cases, these shared hardships actually strengthen the bond between surrogate and family. With the right emotional support, healing happens—together, not apart.

Can I Be a Surrogate Again After a Miscarriage?

Experiencing a surrogate miscarriage doesn’t automatically disqualify you from future journeys. After medical clearance from your doctor and a recovery period, many surrogates go on to complete successful pregnancies.

American Surrogacy will support you in making a decision that aligns with your emotional readiness and health. Some surrogates choose to try again; others decide their journey ends here—either path is honored.

How Common is Miscarriage in Surrogacy?

It might surprise you to learn that miscarriage, including surrogate miscarriage, is relatively common. It affects about 10-20% of all pregnancies. Even when the embryo is healthy, and everything seems perfect, miscarriage can still happen.

Age, embryo quality, and other health factors can play a role, but sometimes there’s simply no clear reason. Knowing this doesn’t make the loss easier, but it can help you release some of the self-blame and understand that this experience is sadly a part of many women’s reproductive journeys.  

How American Surrogacy Supports You Through Every Step

Experiencing a surrogate miscarriage is an emotionally difficult and deeply personal event. At American Surrogacy, our priority is ensuring that no surrogate ever faces that pain alone.

When a miscarriage occurs, our team offers emotional support, licensed counseling referrals, and guidance through next steps.

Surrogates are offered access to mental health professionals experienced in reproductive loss, as well as ongoing check-ins from our staff. We also facilitate peer support networks so surrogates can connect with others who’ve walked a similar path.

Importantly, every step is guided by empathy, not pressure or blame. Surrogacy is a journey that comes with joy and, sometimes, loss. We’re here for all of it, with full-circle care that honors your experience and well-being.

You Don’t Have to Face This Alone

Loss is never easy, but with the right agency, you’ll never walk through it unsupported. At American Surrogacy, we care for every aspect of yourself that you’ve invested in this journey: heart, body and mind. If you’re ready to learn more or just need someone to listen, we’re here.

Connect with a specialist today by filling out our quick form.

You’ve always wanted to help someone build their family—and now you’re considering surrogacy. But what if you’ve also been managing ADHD with medication? Can those two realities coexist?

Many potential surrogates wonder if taking medications like Adderall, Vyvanse or other treatments might disqualify them from the surrogacy process.

Have specific questions? Reach out to our surrogacy specialists—no pressure, just answers.

This article explores the complex relationship between ADHD medication and surrogacy eligibility, so you can make an informed decision and prepare for the journey ahead.

 Can You Be a Surrogate if You Take ADHD Medication?

No. In general, most surrogacy agencies and clinics require surrogates to be free of medications that could pose a risk to a developing fetus.

Since many ADHD medications, particularly stimulants like Adderall or Ritalin, are classified as controlled substances and are not recommended during pregnancy, you may be asked to discontinue use before moving forward.

However, a diagnosis of ADHD alone does not automatically disqualify you from becoming a surrogate.

Learn more about our surrogate requirements and how we walk you through the screening process.

What Medications Disqualify You from Being a Surrogate?

As a surrogate, you are carrying a child for someone else, often for individuals or couples who have spent years, sometimes decades, battling infertility or pregnancy loss.

Any element that introduces avoidable risk must be carefully evaluated to honor the hopes and investments of the intended parents.

We prioritize the health and safety of both the surrogate and the baby. As a result, certain medications can be disqualifying. These commonly include:

• Stimulants for ADHD (Adderall, Vyvanse, Ritalin, Concerta)
• Antidepressants and antipsychotics
• Benzodiazepines and anti-anxiety medications (Xanax, Klonopin)
• Mood stabilizers (Lithium, Depakote)

Many of these drugs are known to carry risks during pregnancy, such as birth defects, low birth weight or neurological impacts on the fetus.

It’s important to disclose all medications honestly and consult with your prescribing doctor and the agency’s medical team.

What is Included in Surrogate Psych Screening?

Mental health is a major component of surrogate screening. Agencies and fertility clinics typically require a thorough psychological evaluation that assesses:

• Emotional stability and coping mechanisms
• History of mood disorders, anxiety or trauma
• Ability to manage stress
• Support system and lifestyle factors

A diagnosis like ADHD does not immediately disqualify a candidate. Instead, the focus is on how well-managed the condition is and whether it might interfere with the emotional demands of surrogacy.

If you’ve been successfully managing ADHD without medication or under the guidance of a mental health professional, this can work in your favor.

Understanding the Effects of Adderall on Pregnancy: What You Need to Know

Some ADHD medications are known to carry risks during pregnancy, particularly in the first trimester. Stimulant medications have been linked to potential issues such as low birth weight and preterm birth.

While research is ongoing, many healthcare providers recommend discontinuing these medications while pregnant.

If you’re currently taking ADHD medication, your surrogacy agency or clinic may require you to wean off the medication prior to embryo transfer.

In many cases, a period of medication-free observation is needed to confirm that you can safely manage your symptoms without pharmaceutical support.

Finding Balance with Adderall Alternatives for Pregnancy During Surrogacy

If you’re asked to discontinue ADHD medication, it’s important to explore alternative management strategies. These might include:

• Behavioral therapy (CBT, executive functioning coaching)
• Mindfulness and meditation practices
• Organizational tools and time management aids
• Diet, exercise and sleep hygiene improvements
• Support groups for adult women with ADHD

Working with a therapist or ADHD coach can help you transition off medication and prepare for the surrogacy journey with confidence.

Surrogate Pregnancy Safe ADHD Supplements

In addition to lifestyle strategies, some individuals explore supplements that may support focus, attention and emotional regulation.

While not a substitute for medication, the following supplements are commonly discussed with healthcare providers:

• Omega-3 fatty acids (found in fish oil) for brain health and cognitive function
• Magnesium to support mood regulation and reduce hyperactivity
• Zinc which may influence dopamine regulation in the brain
• Iron (particularly for those with deficiencies that may exacerbate ADHD symptoms)
• L-Theanine for calm focus and reduced anxiety

Always speak with your physician before starting any supplement regimen, especially if you’re planning to become pregnant, to ensure safety and appropriateness for your individual needs.

ADHD Support Groups for Women

• Moms Living with ADD/ADHD: A Facebook group for mothers with ADHD who are looking for support and advice.
• CHADD: A national non-profit, Children and Adults with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, has an online support group for women with ADHD.
• r/adhdwomen: A subreddit dedicated to women with ADHD to find support and discuss their experiences.

Ready to Move Forward?

Every surrogacy journey is unique and finding the right agency can make all the difference.

We take time to understand your background, listen without judgment and guide you through the process with care are essential when navigating more nuanced eligibility situations like ADHD.

Always consult directly with your surrogacy specialist and fertility specialist to understand their guidelines and expectations.

If you’re prepared to meet the requirements for surrogacy, we can help you begin your journey. Fill out our simple form today.

One of the most important aspects of your surrogacy journey is ensuring both your health and the baby’s well-being, and the RhoGAM shot plays a crucial role in this.

While not every surrogate will be asked to take the RhoGAM injection, understanding what it is and why it is needed helps prepare you if it becomes part of your surrogate journey.

In this article, we’ll explain exactly why the RhoGAM shot is necessary, how it works, and what could happen if it’s missed.

Ready to take the next step? Contact us today to learn more about what to expect from the surrogacy process during your pregnancy.

Why Do I Need a Rhogam Shot as a Surrogate?

As a surrogate, your role is to carry and nurture the baby for another family. The RhoGAM shot helps ensure a healthy pregnancy by preventing complications related to Rh incompatibility.

If you’re Rh-negative and the baby you’re carrying is Rh-positive, your immune system might create antibodies that could harm the baby’s blood cells.

The RhoGAM shot neutralizes these antibodies before they can cause harm, keeping both you and the baby safe.

What is the Rh Factor in Pregnancy?

The Rh factor is essentially what determines if you have a positive or negative blood type. Negative blood types do not carry the Rh factor protein in their blood cells, while positive blood types do.

Why does this matter during surrogacy? If you’re carrying a baby with a different Rh factor, it can lead to complications.

If a surrogate’s blood type does not match that of the baby, there can be incompatibilities, which can lead to potential medical problems. The RhoGAM shot for pregnancy helps prevent complications.

How Does the RhoGAM Shot Work?

When you’re Rh-negative and pregnant with an Rh-positive baby, your immune system could start producing antibodies that attack the baby’s red blood cells. The RhoGAM shot stops this from happening.

By injecting Rh immunoglobulin (the substance in the RhoGAM shot), your body is prevented from making these harmful antibodies, which protects the baby and helps ensure a smoother pregnancy.

When Do I Get the RhoGAM Shot?

The injection is typically administered around 28 weeks pregnant.

You’ll likely need a second dose within 72 hours after birth—but only if the baby is Rh-positive.

Stay on top of your health by tracking important milestones like getting your RhoGAM shot at the right times. Talk to your doctor about scheduling it at the appropriate times during your surrogacy.

You can fill out our simple form to get a better idea of where the RhoGAM shot may fall in your surrogacy timeline.

Does a Surrogate Have to Have the Same Blood Type as the Intended Parents?

No. What matters most is whether you are Rh-negative or Rh-positive, not the overall blood type. You can still carry a child for another family even if your blood type differs from the intended parents’.

The only time this matters is when you are Rh-negative and the baby is Rh-positive, at which point the RhoGAM shot is necessary.

What Happens If I Don’t Get the RhoGAM Shot?

Skipping this shot can lead to serious complications like hemolytic disease of the newborn (HDN), where the baby’s red blood cells are destroyed, leading to anemia, jaundice, or even stillbirth in severe cases.

This is why it’s so important not to skip your RhoGAM injections.

Does the RhoGAM Shot Have Side Effects?

Like any medical treatment, the RhoGAM shot can cause some mild reactions. Common side effects include:

• Pain or swelling at the injection site
• Headache
• Fever
• Nausea

These side effects are usually short-lived and mild. Serious side effects are rare, but if you experience anything unusual, it’s important to reach out to your healthcare provider.

Next Steps

As a surrogate, your health and the baby’s well-being are your top priorities. By preventing Rh incompatibility, the shot minimizes risks and helps you have a smoother surrogacy experience.

If you have more questions or need further information about the RhoGAM shot and your surrogacy journey, contact a surrogacy specialist or healthcare provider for personalized guidance.

Hormonal medications plays a role in preparing your body for embryo transfer and supporting early pregnancy. Without them, the chances of a successful implantation drop significantly.

In this guide, we’ll break down why surrogacy without hormones is typically not possible, what role the hormones play and how to cope with hormone side-effects.

Looking for support during your surrogacy journey? Contact us today to learn more about how we guide surrogates through every step of the process, including hormone management.

Keep reading to learn how to manage your hormones and feel more prepared during your surrogacy journey.

Do Surrogates Have to Take Hormones?

Yes. Surrogates take hormonal medications to prepare their body for implantation and support early pregnancy. These hormones ensure your uterine lining is ready for the embryo transfer and help maintain a stable environment for development.

Here are the key hormones used before embryo transfer:

• Estrogen (Estradiol, Estrace, or patches): Thickens the uterine lining to support implantation.
• Progesterone (injections or suppositories): Maintains a stable uterine lining and prevents early miscarriage.
• Lupron (Leuprolide Acetate): Suppresses natural ovulation to allow precise cycle control.
• Human Chorionic Gonadotropin (hCG): Signals the body to maintain pregnancy and supports progesterone production.
• Dexamethasone (steroid): Lowers immune response to prevent rejection of the embryo.

These medications contribute to higher embryo transfer success rates and ensuring the body is fully prepared for pregnancy.

I Want to Do Surrogacy Without Hormones Because I Don’t Like Needles

For many surrogates, hormone injections are a necessary part of the process, but they can be uncomfortable.

If you were hoping to opt for surrogacy without hormones because you want to avoid needles, there are some strategies to reduce the pain and make the experience a bit easier.

• Rotate injection sites: Try switching up the area where you inject each time. Alternate between your thighs and buttocks, and avoid injecting into the same spot repeatedly to prevent irritation.
• Consider shot blockers: Some surrogates find relief by using shot blockers, which are small devices that block the nerve signals during the injection. These can help minimize the pain by numbing the area temporarily.
• Use a warm compress: Before injecting, apply a warm compress to the area to help relax the muscle. This can make the injection feel smoother and reduce post-injection soreness.
• Massage the area: After the injection, gently massage the area for a few moments. This can help disperse the medication more evenly and relieve some of the tightness or tenderness you might feel.
• Use ice before the shot: Ice the area where you plan to inject for a few minutes to numb the skin. This can reduce the initial sting when the needle goes in.

While these methods won’t make the injections entirely painless, they can certainly make a difference in how you feel during this part of the journey. Learn more about hormone shots for surrogacy.

How to Cope with Side-Effects of Surrogacy Hormones

Every surrogate’s experience will be different. Most surrogates have experienced pregnancy before, but it’s important to note you may have a different reaction to these hormones than you had in your past pregnancies.

Dealing with hormonal shifts can cause significant discomfort, disorientation and mood swings. Even though surrogacy without hormones is not recommended, there are a few ways you can minimize these negative effects:

• Being purposeful with your diet: Creating a balanced diet can help your body stabilize itself during this period, and can have wonderful benefits for your health as well.
• Setting an exercise schedule: Getting consistent exercise helps you in several different ways, including helping manage your hormone response by introducing exercise-related endorphins.
• Leaning on your support system: Your family, friends, or whoever you have in your corner can help you adjust to this new phase of life. Don’t underestimate the importance of your support system.
• Talking with professionals: Discussing hormone regulation and coping strategies with your doctor, nutritionist, or even a councilor can only help.

Dealing With Hormones After Surrogacy and Child Birth

If you’re dealing with long-lasting affects after your surrogacy, here are some ways to cope with the recovery process:

1. Prenatal vitamins: Even after labor and delivery, pre-natal vitamins carry benefits for you. Remember our discussion of estrogen, serotonin and postpartum depression? Some supplemental estrogen can help minimize the harsh drop in serotonin, letting you adjust more steadily to your new chemical balance.
2. Reasonable expectations: It’s important to approach your post-pregnancy with an open mind. You’ve gone through a significant event, and your body has changed.  It may be quite a while before your body is back to its pre-pregnancy self.
3. Post-pregnancy workouts: Certain low-impact core and pelvic floor exercises carry extreme benefits to your body post-pregnancy.  Consult your physician for personalized care.
4. Ask for help: Your support network doesn’t disappear just because you’re no longer pregnant. Ask for help, be open about your needs, and lean on the people you trust. Be sure to maintain your scheduled checkups postpartum.

Can Hormones From Surrogacy Cause Cancer?

The hormones used in surrogacy are considered safe, with no proven link to cancer.

If you’re wondering about surrogacy without hormones because you’re worried about long-term risks, research has not found a direct link between fertility medications and an increased cancer risk.

What the research says:

• Breast cancer: Some studies have looked into whether estrogen-based fertility drugs raise the risk of breast cancer. So far, there’s no strong evidence to suggest they do.
• Ovarian cancer: Early research raised concerns about a possible connection, but more recent studies have found no clear link between fertility medications and ovarian cancer.
• Uterine cancer: While long-term estrogen exposure can be a risk factor, fertility treatments are only used for a short time and don’t appear to contribute to this risk.

Your fertility specialist can help you understand any potential risks and guide you toward the safest approach for your surrogacy journey.

Learning More about Surrogacy Hormones

Remember, hormonal shifts are only temporary. Even if they linger after pregnancy, things will eventually balance out. Until then, you have resources that can support you:

• Surrogate Mothers Online is a group of surrogates like you who share their experiences and support each other through virtual meet-ups and online chats.
• All About Surrogacy is a forum where you can find all kinds of people sharing their experiences with surrogacy.
• Some online communities like Instagram communities, Facebook groups and Subreddits can function as support-oriented forms as well.

Ready to take the next step in your surrogacy journey? Our team is here to support you every step of the way. Fill out our simple form to get started.

Being a surrogate may still be possible if you have a history of shoulder dystocia in prior pregnancy.

Understanding your risks and options can help you move forward with confidence, whether you’re considering becoming a surrogate now or in the future.

In this article, we’ll explain how shoulder dystocia may impact your ability to become a surrogate and what medical professionals consider when reviewing your eligibility.

Have more questions about your eligibility? Speak with a surrogacy specialist today to get personalized guidance tailored to your medical history.

Can I Become a Surrogate After Experiencing Shoulder Dystocia During Birth?

In some cases, yes, but your medical history will be reviewed by a doctor.

While a history of shoulder dystocia in a prior pregnancy can increase the chances of it happening again, surrogacy may still be an option if your doctor determines the pregnancy would be safe and low-risk.

Having experienced shoulder dystocia during birth, you know how frightening it can be when complications arise during delivery. Many intended parents have waited a long time to become parents and don’t want to take any unnecessary risks.

The possibility of recurrence may make surrogacy less viable, as doctors must ensure both you and the baby are safe.

Wondering if you’re eligible for surrogacy after shoulder dystocia? Contact us today for a free consultation.

Potential Complications of Shoulder Dystocia

Shoulder dystocia during birth occurs when the baby’s head is delivered, but the shoulders are stuck behind the pubic bone.

This can cause complications for both you and the baby, which can be mild or severe.

Fetal Complications from Shoulder Dystocia

When shoulder dystocia occurs, the baby is at risk of several potential complications, including:

• Fractures of the arm or collarbone: the baby’s arm or upper chest may sustain fractures as a result of the force needed to release the shoulder.
• Hypoxia: If the baby’s shoulder becomes stuck for an extended period, oxygen flow may be compromised, leading to low oxygen levels in the baby’s blood (hypoxia).
• Injury to the baby’s nerves: Apart from brachial plexus injuries, there may be damage to other nerves that can lead to weakness or loss of function in certain parts of the body.

Shoulder dystocia is not only dangerous for the baby, but it can also pose serious risks to you.

Maternal Complications from Shoulder Dystocia

The complications that mothers may experience as a result of shoulder dystocia include:

• Postpartum hemorrhage: Excessive bleeding after birth, which can occur if the uterus does not contract properly or if there is significant tearing. Shoulder dystocia can increase the risk of this complication due to the force and pressure applied during the delivery.
• Tearing or lacerations: The pressure from the baby’s shoulders can cause tears in the vaginal walls, cervix, or perineum.
• Infection: Any lacerations or surgical interventions required to resolve shoulder dystocia increase the risk of infection, particularly if the area is not properly cleaned or stitched during the immediate postpartum period.

What Are the Chances of Shoulder Dystocia Happening Again?

A handful of studies have shown the risk of recurrence of shoulder dystocia to be around 10-16%, which is higher than the rate of occurrence in the general population.

While experiencing shoulder dystocia increases your chances of shoulder dystocia happening again, it is still possible to have a healthy pregnancy in the future.

It is up to your agency and medical provider to determine if surrogacy can be a safe option for you.

Can I have a normal birth after shoulder dystocia or will I need a C-section?

One of the most common concerns after experiencing shoulder dystocia is whether a C-section is required for future deliveries.

While a past occurrence of shoulder dystocia does increase the risk of it happening again, it does not automatically mean that all future births must be delivered via cesarean section.

Medical providers will evaluate factors such as:

• The severity of the previous shoulder dystocia event
• The baby’s birth weight and size
• Whether additional medical interventions were needed to complete the delivery
• The mother’s overall health and pelvic structure

In some cases, doctors may recommend a planned C-section, especially if the baby is expected to be large or if the previous dystocia event was severe.

However, many women still have the option of a vaginal delivery if the risks remain low. If you are considering surrogacy, a medical professional will help determine if a vaginal birth is a safe option based on your medical history.

How Do Surrogacy Agencies and Clinics Evaluate This Condition?

Surrogacy agencies and fertility clinics follow strict medical guidelines to ensure both the surrogate and baby remain safe throughout the pregnancy.

If you have a history of shoulder dystocia, your medical records will be reviewed carefully to determine if you meet the medical requirements for surrogacy.

Our Surrogacy Requirements at American Surrogacy

Our surrogate requirements are based on industry standards set by the American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) and built to protect surrogates, babies, and intended parents. Some of our requirements include:

• Age range: 21–40 years.
• At least one successful pregnancy.
• No more than five vaginal or three C-section births.
• Currently raising a child.
• No felony convictions.
• No major pregnancy complications

We have medical professionals who review every surrogate’s medical records before you are approved to become a surrogate.

Knowledge of any complications or potential complications can be critical in helping ensure your safety as well as the safety of babies.

That being said, in some cases there are exceptions to the surrogate requirements on a case-by-case basis, and in some cases that may include the complication of shoulder dystocia.

Am I Eligible to Become a Surrogate after Shoulder Dystocia?

Ultimately, the decision to become a surrogate after shoulder dystocia will depend on a variety of factors, including your medical history, overall health, and the evaluations conducted by healthcare professionals.

Contact a surrogacy specialist today for a free consultation to discuss your unique situation and get the answers you need to make an informed decision.

Frequently Asked Questions

What disqualifies you from being a surrogate?

Several factors can disqualify you from becoming a surrogate including: age, lack of previous successful pregnancy, felony convictions, and pregnancy complications, among others. However, in some cases there are exceptions.

Can I be a surrogate if I had a placental abruption?

If you have had a placental abruption, it is unlikely that you will be a good candidate to become a surrogate, however, you can always talk to a surrogacy professional who can help you determine what is best in your unique situation.

Can you be a surrogate if you had a postpartum hemorrhage?

If you have had a postpartum hemorrhage, it is unlikely that you will be a candidate for surrogacy, however, you can always talk to a surrogacy professional to confirm.

Can you be a surrogate if you had a C-section?

Having an uncomplicated C-section does not disqualify you from becoming a surrogate, however, if you have had multiple C-sections, you may be unable to become a surrogate.

You can read more about surrogacy complications and requirements here.