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Let’s Talk Surrogacy: How a Surrogacy Agency Redefined Family-Building

Wade Morris shares what sets American Surrogacy apart: faster matching, comprehensive screening, and commitment when other agencies fall short.

In this episode of Let’s Talk Surrogacy, Wade Morris, Director of Community Resources at American Surrogacy, pulls back the curtain on the surrogacy industry.

With over 30 years of experience building families and 10 years specifically in surrogacy, Wade offers an insider’s perspective on choosing the right agency, understanding costs, and navigating the journey from start to finish.

Prefer to listen on the go? This podcast is available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.

What You’ll Learn:

Why Wait Times Vary So Dramatically

Wade reveals that American Surrogacy matches families in just
1 - 4 months, while some agencies have families waiting 2-4 years.

Major Red Flags at Other Agencies

Learn the warning signs that could cost you years and thousands of dollars:

  • Agencies that match before complete screening
  • Waitlists with 500-700 families competing for surrogates
  • “No upfront fees” promises (often means minimal marketing and poor screening)

Wade explains why these practices lead to failed matches and repeated costs.

Real Timeline & Costs

  • 14-20 months total journey
  • $100,000 - $200,000+ for surrogacy
  • $15,000-$25,000 for IVF

Two Main Programs

American Surrogacy offers two full-service programs: the Limited Risk Program with financial protection against disruptions, and the Foundation Program with lower starting costs.

Why American Surrogacy Stands Out:

When the SEAM escrow fraud collapsed, American Surrogacy absorbed the financial loss and paid all 30 affected families and surrogates out of pocket—something no other agency did.

Join the Conversation

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Does American Surrogacy Accept Shipped Frozen Embryos?

American Surrogacy accepts shipped frozen embryos from any clinic. Learn how we coordinate the process, costs, and safety of embryo transport.

Yes, American Surrogacy routinely works with embryos shipped from fertility clinics across the United States and internationally.

This support eliminates one of the biggest concerns intended parents face when moving from IVF to surrogacy. You don’t need to start over, create new embryos, or abandon the investment you’ve already made in your fertility journey.

Get the support you need for your embryo shipping process. Contact us today to speak with a surrogacy specialist about coordinating your existing embryos with a qualified surrogate.

Why You May Not Even Need to Ship Your Frozen Embryos

Before diving into the shipping process, it’s worth noting that many intended parents can avoid embryo shipping altogether.

Most surrogates working with American Surrogacy are willing and able to travel to your fertility clinic for the embryo transfer procedure.

Benefits of Surrogate Travel to Your Clinic

This approach often proves easier, safer, and less stressful than shipping frozen embryos. When your surrogate travels to your clinic, you eliminate logistical concerns about temperature control, transit time, and coordinating between multiple facilities.

Your embryos stay exactly where they are, in the storage facility you already trust.

Travel arrangements are typically coordinated by our team, and many intended parents find this creates a meaningful bonding opportunity with their surrogate. The transfer takes place in familiar surroundings with your established medical team, providing additional peace of mind during this crucial step.

When Embryo Shipping Becomes Necessary

However, we understand that surrogate travel isn’t always practical due to medical protocols, clinic preferences, or other circumstances.

When shipping becomes necessary, we have extensive experience coordinating successful embryo transfers using shipped embryos through our comprehensive embryo shipping guides.

Do I Need to Create New Embryos for Surrogacy? Or Can I Use the Ones I Have?

You can absolutely use your existing frozen embryos for surrogacy. This is one of the most common questions we hear from intended parents, and the answer provides significant relief both emotionally and financially.

Many of our intended parents come to surrogacy after experiencing multiple IVF failures or pregnancy complications. The embryos you’ve already created represent a substantial investment of time, money, and emotional energy.

Surrogacy embryo transfer success rates range from 60-70% per transfer, compared to traditional IVF rates of 40-50% for women under 35, declining to just 10-15% for women over 40.

Surrogacy’s higher success comes from rigorous surrogate screening that ensures optimal uterine health, proven pregnancy history, and carefully controlled hormonal environments.

Timeline Benefits of Using Existing Embryos

Using existing embryos can also accelerate your surrogacy timeline. Instead of beginning with ovarian stimulation, egg retrieval, and fertilization, you can move directly to matching with a surrogate and preparing for transfer. This can potentially cut months off your journey to parenthood.

Research shows that women with three embryos have a 95% chance of pregnancy, making your existing embryos a valuable asset for your surrogacy journey.

What Your Clinic Needs to Provide

Your fertility clinic will need to release your embryos along with detailed documentation, including:

  • Embryo quality grades and development stages
  • Genetic testing results (if applicable)
  • Storage requirements and freezing protocols
  • Complete medical history and lab work

Our team coordinates with both your original clinic and your surrogate’s clinic to ensure all documentation and medical records are properly transferred along with your embryos.

Is Embryo Shipping Safe?

Embryo shipping has an excellent safety record when performed by specialized cryogenic transport companies. Your embryos are stored in specialized tanks called cryoshippers or dry shippers that maintain consistent ultra-low temperatures without requiring external power sources.

How Embryos Stay Protected During Transport

These specialized containers offer multiple layers of protection:

  • Liquid nitrogen maintains temperatures at -196°C (-320°F) throughout transport
  • Containers maintain temperature for 7-10 days, providing significant safety margins
  • Professional companies provide detailed chain of custody documentation
  • Real-time temperature monitoring and tracking systems ensure constant oversight
  • Insurance coverage specifically protects reproductive tissue during transport

Properly shipped embryos maintain the same survival rates as those that never leave their original storage facility. Your embryos are treated as critical medical cargo throughout transport, with freezing and thawing having far more impact on viability than shipping.

We always recommend discussing the shipping process with your fertility clinic and reproductive endocrinologist for guidance specific to your embryos’ characteristics.

If you’re considering how many embryos to use for surrogacy or exploring surrogacy with only one embryo left, our specialists can help you develop the best strategy.

From Clinic to Surrogate: How the Embryo Shipping Process Works

The embryo shipping process involves careful coordination between multiple parties, but at American Surrogacy, we manage these logistics so you don’t have to navigate them alone.

Step 1: Documentation and Release

Your original fertility clinic prepares release forms and detailed embryo information, including quality grades, genetic testing results, and storage requirements. You’ll sign consent forms authorizing the transfer and release of your embryos.

Step 2: Receiving Clinic Coordination

Your surrogate’s fertility clinic provides specific shipping instructions, including preferred shipping companies, arrival timing, and any special requirements. We coordinate between both clinics to ensure compatibility and proper preparation.

Step 3: Professional Shipping Arrangement

A specialized reproductive tissue transport company picks up your embryos in a temperature-controlled cryogenic container. These companies are specifically licensed and insured for embryo transport, not general medical courier services.

Step 4: Real-Time Tracking

Throughout transport, the shipping company provides tracking information and temperature monitoring. Many services offer real-time alerts and updates so all parties know exactly where embryos are located.

Step 5: Safe Arrival and Verification

The receiving clinic confirms embryo arrival, verifies the integrity of the shipment, and places embryos in their storage facility. Both clinics document the successful transfer for your records.

This entire process typically takes 1-3 days for domestic shipments and 2-10 days for international transport, depending on the origin and destination countries. Our coordination team manages communications between all parties and keeps you informed throughout the process.

Embryo Shipping Costs and Logistics: What Intended Parents Should Expect

Embryo shipping costs typically range from $1,000 to $3,000 for domestic shipments within the United States, depending on distance, urgency, and specific transport requirements.

International shipping costs are significantly higher, generally ranging from $3,000-$8,000 or more depending on the origin country and service level.

For more detailed information about embryo shipping costs, our specialists can provide specific estimates based on your situation.

These costs cover specialized cryogenic containers, professional handling, insurance coverage, and documentation services.

While it represents an additional expense, most intended parents find the cost manageable compared to creating new embryos or repeating IVF cycles.

Additional Fees to Consider

Beyond shipping costs, you may encounter:

  • Documentation fees from your original clinic (typically $200-500)
  • Receiving fees from your surrogate’s clinic (usually $300-600)
  • Storage fees if embryos arrive before your surrogate is ready for transfer
  • Rush shipping surcharges for expedited services

Timing coordination is essential for cost management. Rush shipping or expedited services significantly increase expenses, so planning ahead when possible helps control costs.

Our team works with you to identify the optimal shipping window based on your surrogate’s cycle and clinic availability.

Financial Protection AvailableThrough our Programs

Many intended parents find it helpful to factor shipping costs into their overall surrogacy budget. We offer three comprehensive program options to fit different needs and financial situations:

  • Foundation Program: If your journey ends without a baby and you have no embryos left, some fees will be refunded.
  • Limited Risk Program: In addition to available refunds if a journey doesn’t work out, you also have access to comprehensive services, including unlimited matching at no extra cost.

For those seeking additional financing support, companies like Sunfish offer fertility loans that can cover embryo shipping and related expenses as part of comprehensive surrogacy financing packages.

How American Surrogacy Supports Intended Parents Through This Process

We bring years of experience coordinating embryo shipments for intended parents from around the world.

Our team understands the emotional weight of entrusting your embryos to a shipping process and provides comprehensive support throughout, including our detailed guide to shipping frozen embryos.

Clinic Coordination Expertise

We maintain relationships with fertility clinics nationwide and understand their specific requirements for embryo receipt and storage.

This experience helps us identify potential logistical issues early and resolve them before they impact your timeline.

Vendor Network Management

Our team works with proven embryo shipping companies and can recommend services based on your specific needs, location, and budget.

You won’t need to research and vet shipping companies yourself because we handle all vendor coordination.

Communication Bridge

Throughout the shipping process, we serve as a central communication hub between you, your original clinic, your surrogate’s clinic, and the shipping company. You’ll receive regular updates without needing to manage multiple points of contact.

If Unexpected Issues Come Up

If unexpected issues arise during shipping, our team provides immediate problem-solving support. Weather delays, documentation problems, clinic scheduling conflicts—we’ve handled various shipping challenges and know how to resolve them quickly.

Beyond logistics, we understand the anxiety many intended parents feel about shipping embryos. Our team provides emotional support and reassurance throughout the process, helping you feel confident in your decision.

Program Options and Financial Protection

Our programs include full-service support and independent program options with embryo shipping coordination as part of our comprehensive services.

Whichever program you select, we’ll manage all embryo shipping logistics so you can focus on your approaching parenthood. Our financial protection programs safeguard your investment from the moment your embryos leave storage until they arrive at your surrogate’s clinic.

Contact us today to discuss your shipping coordination needs and take the next step toward your journey to parenthood. 

Your existing embryos represent the foundation of your future family, and we’re here to ensure they reach your surrogate safely and efficiently.


Planning Your Second Surrogacy Journey

Building your family with a second surrogacy journey can be a rewarding experience. Learn about sibling surrogacy journeys, the benefits of working with the same surrogate, cost considerations, financing options, and tips for planning a smooth process.

Expanding your family is an exciting milestone, and for many families who’ve already experienced the joy of surrogacy, a second surrogacy journey for a sibling can help you expand your family even further.

Whether you’re pursuing a surrogacy sibling journey with the same surrogate or starting fresh with someone new, American Surrogacy is here to support you every step of the way.

Contact us now to speak with a surrogacy specialist who can help you plan your second surrogacy journey.

From understanding the benefits of repeat surrogacy journeys to navigating costs and timelines, this guide will help you plan for a smooth and fulfilling experience.

What Is a Surrogacy Sibling Journey?

A sibling surrogacy journey involves using surrogacy to have a second child after previously using surrogacy to have a child.

Many intended parents prefer working with the same surrogate, as it fosters continuity and strengthens bonds between both families.

Benefits of a Repeat Journey with the Same Surrogate

If your first surrogacy journey was a success, continuing with the same surrogate offers numerous benefits:

Established Trust and Relationship

The connection you built during your first journey allows for seamless communication and mutual respect, creating a positive foundation for your second journey.

Familiarity with the Process

Both you and your surrogate already understand the steps involved. From medical procedures to emotional preparation, this familiarity often makes a second surrogacy journey smoother.

Proven Success

A surrogate with a successful pregnancy history gives you peace of mind, knowing she’s capable of carrying your child to term.

Time Savings

You won’t need to undergo the time-intensive matching process again if your surrogate is available and willing to help.

If your surrogate cannot continue, our thorough pre-screening and active marketing ensure you’ll be matched with a new qualified surrogate quickly and confidently. Contact us today to learn more.

How Much Does a Second Surrogacy Journey Cost?

Surrogacy costs around $100,000 - $200,000+ on average.

Costs can vary depending on your circumstances, but here are a few key points to consider before you begin a second surrogacy journey:

  • No Matching Fees (in Some Cases): If you’re continuing with the same surrogate, you may save on the matching process fees.
  • Higher Surrogate Compensation: Surrogates often receive higher compensation for a second journey, reflecting their experience and commitment.
  • Additional Medical Costs: Depending on the time between pregnancies, you may need updated medical screenings or fertility treatments, such as embryo creation or transfer procedures.

Affording a Second Surrogacy Journey

Surrogacy is a significant investment, and a surrogacy sibling journey may feel financially daunting — especially if your first surrogacy experience was recent.

Here are some financing tips to help make the costs more manageable:

Surrogacy Loans

Surrogacy loans can be an excellent option for intended parents looking to spread out the cost of their second surrogacy journey.

Several lenders specialize in fertility and surrogacy financing, offering flexible terms to fit your budget:

  • BetterMed: This company offers low-interest loans tailored to fertility treatments and surrogacy expenses, with quick approval times and flexible repayment options.
  • Sunfish: A popular choice for family-building loans, Sunfish provides customizable loan amounts and extended repayment periods to make surrogacy more accessible.
  • CapexMD: Known for its expertise in fertility financing, CapexMD partners with clinics and agencies to provide seamless payment options and affordable interest rates.

By choosing a specialized lender, you can ensure that your financing is tailored to the unique needs of your surrogacy journey.

Grants for Family-Building

Grants are another valuable resource for families wanting to have a second child through surrogacy.

While these grants can be competitive, they offer significant financial support:

Personal Savings or Fundraising Campaigns

Many families choose to rely on personal savings or creative fundraising efforts to finance their second surrogacy journey.

Here are some ideas to consider:

  • Savings Plans: Start a dedicated savings account specifically for surrogacy expenses. Automating monthly contributions can help you stay on track.
  • Crowdfunding Platforms: Websites like GoFundMe allow you to share your family-building story and raise funds from friends, family, and even strangers who want to support your journey.
  • Community Fundraisers: Host events such as bake sales, charity runs, or online auctions to generate funds while sharing your story.
  • Employer Benefits: Check with your workplace to see if they offer family-building assistance or reimbursement programs. Some companies have begun to recognize the importance of supporting employees with fertility and surrogacy benefits.

Take time to assess your financial situation before beginning. If you’re pursuing surrogacy soon after your first journey, consider the impact of consecutive costs on your budget.

We offer financial protection and transparent cost estimates to help you stay prepared. Contact us now to speak with a specialist about your financing options.

Tips for Planning a Smooth Surrogacy Sibling Journey

Evaluate Your Family Goals

Consider your ideal timeline for expanding your family and whether additional embryos need to be created.

Connect with Your Agency

Your agency can guide you through every step, from determining your timeline to ensuring your surrogate is ready.

Give the Surrogate Time to Recover

Medical guidelines recommend a minimum of 12-18 months between pregnancies to allow a surrogate’s body to heal fully.

Communicate Early and Openly

If you’re hoping to work with the same surrogate, check in with her early to discuss her availability and interest in a second journey.

Plan for Additional Screenings

Depending on the time elapsed; you may need to update medical and psychological evaluations for both the surrogate and yourself.

Start Your Second Surrogacy Journey Today

A surrogacy sibling journey offers the unique opportunity to grow your family while strengthening bonds with your first child’s surrogate — or creating new connections with a different surrogate.

At American Surrogacy, we’re committed to guiding you through every step, whether you’re planning a repeat journey or starting fresh.

Ready to grow your family? Contact us today to get personalized support and start planning your second surrogacy journey with confidence.

How You Can Avoid Going into Debt for IVF

Surrogacy offers a path to parenthood that may save you from the financial strain of failed IVF attempts. If you’re worried about going into debt for IVF on your surrogacy journey, there are options to explore.

For many, in vitro fertilization (IVF) feels like the only hope to grow their family, even if it means taking on significant debt.

Whether you’re worried about affording IVF and surrogacy or traditional IVF has already led to financial strain without success, know that IVF debt doesn’t have to be part of your journey.

Learn more about how we can help you have the family you’ve always dreamed of while protecting your budget in the process. Contact us today.

In this article we will explore the potential risks of going into debt for IVF, the cost efficiency of surrogacy and the financial options available to you.

Financial Realities of Going into Debt for IVF

When natural conception isn’t an option, IVF offers hope. However, this hope often comes at a price. The average cost of one IVF cycle ranges from $12,000 to $15,000, and most people require multiple cycles to achieve success.

While debt can feel like a necessary step to achieving parenthood, it’s important to understand the risks involved:

  • High-Interest Debt: Credit cards and personal loans often carry high interest rates, compounding the amount owed over time.
  • Emotional Stress: Financial strain can add to the emotional toll of IVF, especially if the treatment isn’t successful.
  • Long-Term Financial Instability: Accumulating debt for IVF can affect future financial goals, such as buying a home, saving for retirement, or providing for your child’s needs if the process is successful.

For many intended parents, the financial strain doesn’t stop at IVF. If surrogacy becomes necessary after unsuccessful attempts, it adds to the overall costs. As a result, families are often left wondering if they should continue down the ART path, especially if it means acquiring IVF debt.

Do people go into debt for IVF?

Yes, according to survey data, about 70% of people who pursue IVF go into debt to complete their IVF journey.

Surrogacy: A Cost-Efficient Alternative

For those who’ve faced multiple failed IVF cycles, surrogacy can feel like a daunting financial commitment—but it may be more cost-efficient in the long run.

Unlike IVF, where success is uncertain, surrogacy often has higher success rates for couples with no viable embryos or who struggle with uterine issues or health conditions that make pregnancy difficult, impossible or even dangerous.

By working with a reputable surrogacy agency like ours, you gain access to financial protections, clearly defined cost tiers and support systems that make the process more predictable.

To learn more about what services and resources are covered by our surrogacy costs and how we’ll protect your finances, reach out today.

Avoiding IVF Debt and Affording Surrogacy

If you’re worried about going into debt for IVF on your surrogacy journey, there are options to explore:

Option 1. Grants and Scholarships

Many organizations offer financial assistance for fertility treatments. Look into grants like the Baby Quest Foundation or the Cade Foundation.

Option 2. Crowdfunding

Platforms like GoFundMe allow intended parents to share their story and raise funds from friends, family, and their community.

Option 3. Specialized IVF Loans

Companies like Sunfish or CapexMD offer financing tailored to fertility treatments, often with lower interest rates and flexible payment plans.

Option 4. Clinic Payment Plans

Some fertility clinics offer payment plans to help spread the cost of IVF over time.

Option 5. Using Donor Embryos

Couples or individuals who have leftover embryos from IVF will often donate them to other IVF patients. Using donor embryos for surrogacy can help you avoid the costs of embryo creation, while guaranteeing you embryos.

IVF Debt Management

If going into debt for IVF feels unavoidable or you have no more money for IVF, here are some tips to help you move forward:

  • Set a Budget: Calculate how much debt you can realistically afford to take on without jeopardizing your long-term financial stability.
  • Consolidate Loans: If you have existing debt, consolidating it into a lower-interest loan can make payments more manageable.
  • Seek Financial Counseling: A financial advisor or counselor can help create a debt management plan tailored to your situation.

Is It Time to Pivot to Surrogacy?

If you’re wondering whether to pursue another IVF cycle or to shift your focus to surrogacy, it’s important to weigh both the emotional and financial factors.

Continuing IVF cycles while carrying significant debt can leave you feeling drained, both financially and emotionally.

Surrogacy offers a path to parenthood that, while more expensive upfront, may save you from further financial strain of IVF debt caused by repeated failed attempts.

How We Can Help

We’re here to support you at every step of your journey. Contact us today to learn how surrogacy could be the next step toward achieving your dream of becoming a parent.

From offering financial guidance to connecting you with high-quality surrogates, we ensure your investment in parenthood is supported by the best possible resources.

Want to share your surrogacy story, or hear from others like you? connect to our Instagram page.


Deciding Between Surrogacy Vs Adoption

Discover the pros and cons of surrogacy vs adoption to help you create the family you’ve been dreaming of.

The choice to have a family is always exciting, but deciding how to have a family can be hard.

To get more information about your family-building options, fill out our online form.

For couples and hopeful individuals who cannot have a family on their own, you may be considering alternatives to starting a family. This can likely include surrogacy vs adoption as potential options.

The Pros and Cons of Surrogacy vs. Adoption

Navigating the pros and cons of surrogacy vs. adoption can lead you to your ultimate choice between the two. Learn more about the major points that can help people decide which one to pursue.

Genetics

A gestational surrogate will not share any genetics with your child. The embryo used will either use your egg/sperm or a donor’s. This would mean the child could be biologically yours depending on the egg and sperm you use.

A birth mother will share genetics with the child, which can cause emotional implications as you go through the process. This can make the birth mother feel more attached to the child, possibly having trouble letting go.

Genetics can often play a determining factor in choosing between adoption vs surrogacy. For intended parents who feel strongly about having a genetic link to their child, surrogacy is sometimes the better option. However, if genetics are not something you feel you need to share with your child, adoption can be a great option.

Cost

The cost of surrogacy vs. adoption can be a big determining factor. Adoption can cost intended parents anywhere from $20,000-$50,000 on average. This can be a more affordable option in comparison to surrogacy. Surrogacy can cost an average of $150,000. This includes surrogate pay, agency fees, legal fees and more. Surrogacy is definitely far more expensive than adoption.

Finances can definitely be a deciding factor between surrogacy vs. adoption, but it’s important that you feel confident in your finances. Raising a child has plenty of costs involved in the process, so being aware of how much you may spend to have a child is imperative. Asking an agency to be upfront about their costs of surrogacy can help you financially prepare.

Matching

The matching process for adoption vs. surrogacy is slightly different. The matching process for adoption generally relies heavily on the birth mother and her decision. During the surrogacy process, you will create a profile when you put together your surrogacy plan. This will be advertised to prospective surrogates and your surrogacy specialist will help you connect with your perfect match. We strive to match intended parents and surrogates in 1 - 4 months.

For adoption, the birth mother will choose the parents. You will put together a profile and video to give a little insight into your family and lifestyle so a birth mother can get to know you. Your adoption specialist will help advertise your profile and video to reach a potential birth mother.

Legal Process

The legal process tends to vary between surrogacy vs. adoption. In surrogacy, legal contracts are signed before the medical process can begin. In adoption, the birth parents must give written consent and their rights must be legally terminated after the baby is born. A birth mother also has the option to change her mind at any time until she legally executes her consent. Because the birth mother has the option to change her mind during the pregnancy and after giving birth, it can be an emotionally difficult road to take.

Benefits of Surrogacy vs. Adoption

The benefit of surrogacy vs. adoption is that you will end up with a child, growing the family you’ve always wanted. The choice to grow your family and how you grow your family is ultimately up to you. With surrogacy, you have the opportunity to have a child who is genetically related to you.

You can also be part of the entire pregnancy and be more in control of the situation. With adoption, you get to create a family for a child who needs one. You can create a relationship with the birth mother where everyone is comfortable and create an environment where your child is able to thrive.

No matter which option you choose to create your family, we can help you. Our surrogacy specialists are ready to assist you with the process. Our sister company American Adoptions can also help you get started in your adoption journey. Don’t wait to create the family you’ve always wanted. Contact us today. Be sure to connect with other surrogates and share your story with our online communities.

Choosing Between IVF and Surrogacy

The process of in vitro fertilization or IVF and surrogacy often come up together. We explain the difference and how you can achieve your dreams of parenthood.

The process of in vitro fertilization or IVF and surrogacy often come up together. And for anyone new to the process, you might have a lot of questions. We have the answers you need

To get more information about IVF and surrogacy, fill out our online form and one of our specialists will help you evaluate your infertility options.

Struggling With Infertility

For anyone struggling with infertility, you may be looking for alternative routes to parenthood. Many people turn to IVF in the beginning of their journey. The IVF process includes:

  • Take fertility drugs
  • Pre-retrieval
  • Sperm sample analysis
  • Insemination
  • Embryo transfer
  • Pregnancy results

This process is a generally effective fertility treatment for those going through infertility. IVF is often times a good option if you have certain health conditions, fallopian tube damage/blockage, ovulation disorders, endometriosis, uterine fibroids, or are experiencing unexplained infertility. The downside to IVF is that it can be a lengthy, expensive and emotional process. The success rate of IVF attempts for people under 35 is 50%, while attempts at ages 42 and over are only at 3.9%

The Difference Between Surrogacy and IVF

One of the main differences between surrogacy and IVF is the carrier of the baby. When people are using IVF, the intended mother is the one carrying the child. The IVF treatments allow her body to prepare to carry a child in ways it otherwise would not be able to. In surrogacy, a surrogate will carry the child. However, the egg of the intended mother may still be used.

If you’ve been working through IVF and are beginning to feel defeated, don’t give up. Your goal to have a family can still be achieved. This is the part of the journey many people may choose to start looking into surrogacy. There are a number of reasons people may choose surrogacy over IVF, including:

  1. They’re ready to move on from IVF treatments.
  2. They’re more interested in becoming a parent than they are in being pregnant.
  3. They’re concerned about the continued cost of IVF.
  4. They only have a few embryos left.
  5. They’ve done their research.

How Surrogacy and IVF Can Work Together

IVF is used in the surrogacy process. Throughout the process you will use IVF to assist in having a healthy surrogacy. They will go through the same IVF process as mentioned above, but through gestational surrogacy, you will help to create the embryo. This will include:

  • The surrogate will undergo IVF to carry and deliver your child
  • You and your partner’s gametes will be used to create the embryo
  • A sperm donor, an egg donor, or both will help create the embryo
  • A fertility clinic will help create the embryo to be transferred to the surrogate
  • The baby will not be related to the surrogate.

How American Surrogacy Can Help

For couples and individuals who dream of becoming parents but face significant challenges in conceiving, surrogacy offers a pathway to realize their dreams. By partnering with American Surrogacy, these intended parents gain access to a network of compassionate and qualified surrogates who selflessly offer to carry and nurture a child on their behalf.

This process not only offers a chance at biological parenthood but also fosters a deep sense of emotional connection and shared purpose between the intended parents and surrogates. American Surrogacy’s comprehensive support, including legal guidance, medical expertise and emotional assistance, helps alleviate the burdens that infertility often brings, allowing intended parents to focus on the joyous journey of parenthood that IVF and surrogacy can make possible.

Start you parenthood journey today. Contact us to get more information about IVF and surrogacy, or connect with other intended parents like you.

Do Surrogate Mothers Share DNA With The Baby?

Do surrogates share DNA with the baby? We answer our most asked questions about genetics and surrogacy.

As you go through the surrogacy process you, and maybe even family members and friends, may have questions about the DNA of your child. Many people may choose surrogacy due to the genetic factor. But people still have questions about DNA and the genetic process. Common questions we get asked include:

  • Does the surrogate mother share DNA with the child?
  • Will the baby look like the surrogate mother?
  • Do surrogates share blood with the baby?
  • Does a gestational surrogate have a right to the baby?

To get answers to these questions and more, you can contact a surrogacy specialist today by filling out our online form or call 1-800-875-BABY.

You can also hear directly from surrogates and intended parents alike by following us on Instagram.

Use this easy guide to understand the difference between traditional surrogacy vs. gestational surrogacy, and help those with questions understand your surrogacy process as well.

Traditional Surrogacy

In traditional surrogacy, the surrogate contributes her own egg to the in-vitro process. Once her egg is artificially inseminated by the intended father’s or donor’s sperm, an embryo is created which she will then carry to term in her uterus. In this form of surrogacy, the surrogate mother is the biological mother of the child. This genetic relationship can come with unique challenges. Due to the higher level of legal risk with traditional surrogacy, it is rarely done today.

Gestational Surrogacy

In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate and baby do not share any genetics. An embryo is created from the intended parents’ and/or donor’s egg and sperm. Once the embryo is created, it is transferred to the surrogate’s womb and she then carries the baby to term. This process is the most common form of surrogacy today, and the only form of surrogacy American Surrogacy completes.

Now, let’s answer those questions from above. We understand that many of the questions may be from well-meaning family members and friends who have a ton of thoughts on the process. However, we are here to offer you the information to make it clear that your child will not be genetically related to the surrogate.

Does the surrogate mother share DNA with the child?

Many people may think of traditional surrogacy when it comes to the surrogate process. They assume it’s her egg being used. This, of course, is not the case. You will use your egg or a donor’s egg to create the embryo that will be carried by the surrogate. The DNA will come from the egg that was used in the embryo. It will have nothing to do with the surrogate.

Will the baby look like the surrogate mother?

Again, the appearance of the baby comes down to who provided the sperm and the egg to create the embryo that results in a child.

Do surrogates share blood with the baby?

When people talk about “blood relation” they may be thinking of literal blood. While yes, a surrogate’s blood is used to help grow your child, they are not of “blood relation.”

Does a gestational surrogate have a right to the baby?

No. With gestational surrogacy, the surrogate mother does not have any rights to the child. There will be a legal process that will allow you the legal rights of parenthood while the baby is in the womb.

When people ask if the baby is related to the surrogate mother, the answer is simply no. You will share the genetics with your child through your egg or sperm, or you can choose to use a donor if using your own is not an option for you.

If you want more information on surrogacy, contact us today at 1-800-825-2229 (BABY) or fill out our online form.

Surrogacy for Gay Parents: Celebrating Pride and Parenthood

Through the stories of surrogacy for gay parents that we’ve worked with, we witness the profound impact of surrogacy and the essence of family.

Family is more than just a biological connection. In today’s diverse and evolving society, stories of gay surrogacy demonstrate the power of love and determination in creating families. These heartfelt journeys of gay intended parents we’ve helped have the family of their dreams highlight the path through the surrogacy process to the joy of parenthood.

Each narrative is a powerful testament to their unwavering commitment and resilience, demonstrating how surrogacy turns dreams of parenthood into reality. Through these stories, we witness the profound impact of surrogacy, fostering acceptance, equality and the true essence of family.

Connect with LGBTQ intended parents on our Instagram.

To learn more about the process of surrogacy for gay parents, fill out our simple form.

Gay Surrogacy Stories from American Surrogacy

Michael and Viet’s Story

For Michael and Viet, becoming parents was the next step in their journey together as a couple. As they considered their family-building options, surrogacy stood out as a way to share a biological connection to their child.

“Surrogacy just gave us an opportunity to complete our family and it completely changed our lives,” says Viet. “We looked at adoption and at the time there was a two year waiting process and the fees were just about the same so we thought why don’t we just go through surrogacy and have someone that is part of me in our family which was something we also really wanted.”

After meeting their surrogate, Alissandra, Michael knew she was the person who they wanted to help grow their family.

“The first meeting with our surrogacy Alissandra I definitely felt like it was an instant connection and it was an amazing match because the reasons why she wanted to this were very heartfelt,” says Michael.

It was as if their family grew by two through surrogacy. “After we started the whole process we just got really close and we were a family I felt,” Viet says.

The birth of Michael and Viet’s son through surrogacy fulfilled them in ways they never could have imagined. Viet recalls the first time he held his son.

“The birth of our son was amazing. Alissandra had just given birth and the nurses handed him to me and I just couldn’t believe after all the years and everything we went through that he was finally here.  I was holding my little boy in my arms and he was perfect.”

“My son has filled a part of my existence and should and heart with a love that I just never knew existed,” Michael adds.

Watch more of their story here.

Nicholas’s Story

Surrogacy for gay parents isn’t limited to couples. Nicholas, a single gay man, wanted to have a family. Having a genetic connection to his child was important to him, but he worried that surrogacy wouldn’t be an option on his own.

“You first say, ‘Forget it; it’s too complicated, it’s too risky,” Nicholas says. “And then you start to talking to some people and understanding that it is possible to do so if you really want to, so then you have to sleep on it — and then one day realize this is not just an option, but you can do it.”

After finding American Surrogacy, Nicholas’s surrogacy specialist presented him with Nichole’s surrogate profile. Within moments of getting to know her, he knew she was the perfect fit. “We talked to each other, and it seemed really natural,” he remembers. “But what made me sure that Nichole was perfect was because she came across really genuine, and she wasn’t doing it for the money but truly to help.”

The day Julian, Nicholas’s son was born, was the day his life changed forever.

“I had been waiting for so long that… when I saw Julian, I was just completely overwhelmed,” Nicholas remembers. “It was such a wonderful experience to see Julian coming into our world.”

Read more of his story here.

How American Surrogacy Facilitates Surrogacy for Gay Parents

 For all of our intended parents, we work tirelessly to help them find the perfect surrogate match as soon as possible.

“Within a few weeks of making first contact, American Surrogacy told us we have a very, very strong match for you,” Michael remembers. “It was a really wonderful match. I wish all intended parents to have such a wonderful match like that.”

We help you find the right surrogate for you by showing you profiles of surrogates who possess the qualities you want in the person who will carry your child. We put the best interests of you and your future child at the forefront.

 “You need someone that you’re going to trust to choose a surrogate for you, and American Surrogacy was the only agency I felt comfortable with and was genuine enough for me to choose over the other agencies,” Nicholas remembers. “I spoke to many surrogacy agencies — small and big — and none of them made me feel the way American Surrogacy made me feel.”

We’re here for you every step of the way throughout your surrogacy journey.

“The staff at American Surrogacy made our experience really good. We spoke to [our surrogacy specialist] and she was just comfortable to talk to,” says Viet. “She reassured us when we needed it. Every time we called her, she always answered the phone. They’re very supportive and invested in our process.”

“The whole thing is to truly find people like [my surrogacy specialist], who have experience, patience and care for what you go through,” says Nicholas. “This is such a wonderful journey because you realize you’re not alone, and it gets easier than you think.”

Whether you’re an LGBT couple or individual, parenthood is just in reach through our agency. If you’re ready to begin your journey or have questions about surrogacy for gay parents, contact us today.

How Do Surrogacy Agencies Find Surrogates?

You can become the parent you’ve been dreaming of being through surrogacy. Find out how a surrogacy agency connects you with a great surrogate.

Becoming a parent through surrogacy can be a beautiful shared journey with a great surrogate, but the process of finding a surrogate can be difficult. That’s why American Surrogacy has a system in place to find great surrogates and connect you with the best surrogate for your family.

You can get help finding a surrogate here or call 1-800-875-2229. Read on to learn more about how we find our surrogates.

Surrogate Advertising

The first step in finding surrogates is to find women who may want to become surrogates.  Our advertising team works hard to connect with these women. Women may see an advertisement for our surrogacy agency, hear about us from a friend or family member, or find us through web search results. They may even come across our Instagram community.

Often, women find us through searches because they have been considering surrogacy and are excited about helping out a family who is dreaming of having a child.

These women may send us a message, connect with us through our online contact form, or call our surrogacy specialists directly at 1-800-875-2229.

Surrogate Intake

Once a woman connects with us as a potential surrogate, our surrogacy specialists begin sharing information with her and gathering information about her.

Our surrogacy specialists know the importance of having surrogates who are well-informed and committed to the process, so our surrogacy specialists share all the information a surrogate might need to begin the process of surrogacy, and each woman has the opportunity to ask any questions she might have about the process.

When she feels ready, a potential surrogate will also answer basic questions about herself that help our surrogate specialists determine if she might be a good candidate to be a surrogate.

These initial questions can include:

  • Age
  • General health information
  • Previous pregnancy information
  • Whether or not she is currently raising a child
  • Social history
  • Reasons for  wanting to become a surrogate

Surrogate Screening

Once a potential surrogate is well-informed of the surrogacy process, and the surrogate specialist has determined she meets the basic qualifications to become a surrogate, she will begin the screening process.

The screening process goes more in-depth to determine whether a potential surrogate is qualified and ready to become a surrogate.

The screening process involves help from professionals and can include:

  • A psychological screening
  • An in-home visit
  • Medical records review
  • Background check
  • And more

Surrogate Matching

Once a surrogate has been fully screened and is ready to get matched with a family, your surrogacy specialist will prepare her for the matching process by helping her create a surrogate profile. The surrogate profile will include important information about the surrogate as well as personal information that can help you find the perfect match for your family.

When you are ready to be matched with a surrogate, you can view profiles of surrogates who are fully screened and ready to help you on your surrogacy journey. At American Surrogacy, you can get matched with a surrogate in as little as 1 - 4 months, the shortest wait time in the industry.

Identified Surrogacy

Sometimes, we don’t need to do the work of finding a surrogate because some intended parents come to surrogacy with a surrogate already in mind. There have been friends, siblings, in-laws, aunts, cousins, daughters, and even mothers who were surrogates for someone in their life.

When intended parents come to us with a woman in mind who is ready to become a surrogate, we screen the potential surrogate, and if the woman meets the requirements to become a surrogate, we can help them along the rest of the journey.

If you have a friend, family member, or another person in your life who is interested in becoming a surrogate for you, we can help you complete your surrogacy journey through our identified surrogacy program.

Get Help Now

Whether you need help finding a surrogate or have a surrogate in mind, you can call 1-800-875-2229 or get help here from one of our surrogacy specialists.

What to Know About Egg Donor Surrogacy

If you’re interested in growing your family, working with an agency that has an egg donor and surrogacy program can help prepare you for a successful surrogacy journey.

As surrogacy gains popularity as a family-planning option, many egg donor and surrogacy programs are starting to move to the forefront of the conversation. If you’re intended parents struggling with female infertility, a same-sex couple or a hopeful single parent, utilizing an egg donor and surrogacy can help you achieve your dreams of parenthood.

If you’re trying to grow your family and have questions about egg donor surrogacy, you can get connected with our surrogacy specialists today.

Finding the right egg donor and surrogacy program is a big component of the surrogacy journey, so it’s important that everyone involved feels confident and informed. This article will break down the key points of using an egg donor and surrogacy to grow your family.

Egg Donor Surrogacy [What to Know]

Many intended parents utilize an egg donor and surrogacy to start their families. There are typically three parties involved in egg donor surrogacy:

  • The intended parents
  • The gestational carrier
  • An egg donor

To get started, intended parents will need to identify an egg donor for surrogacy. This can be done through a separate fertility clinic or an agency that has an egg donor and surrogacy program. Intended parents want to be as involved as they can in bringing their baby into the world, which is why they’ll be able to choose a donor who has qualities that align with their surrogacy goals.

Viable eggs are taken from the donor through the egg retrieval process and then fertilized through the IVF process with the sperm of the intended father or a donor. The embryo will then be transferred to the gestational carrier for her to carry to term.

Benefits of Using an Egg Donor and Surrogacy

Using an egg donor and surrogacy to grow your family is a great option if you:

  • A couple experiencing female infertility
  • A same-sex couple
  • A single hopeful father

When you work with an agency that has an egg donor and surrogacy program, you’ll have both the comfort and convenience of having almost all the necessary services and resources for your surrogacy journey in one place. Your surrogacy specialist will be able to help you find an egg donor that matches your preferences so that you can feel in control of your surrogacy journey.

Choosing Your Egg Donor and Surrogacy Program [Questions to Ask]

When it comes to finding the right egg donor and surrogacy program, you’ll want to make sure you’re adequately prepared for the egg donor and surrogacy process. Below are a few of the questions you should be asking yourself about any egg donor and surrogacy program you’re considering.

What are you Looking for in an Egg Surrogacy Donor?

You’ll want to make sure you have a clear vision of what you’re looking for in an egg donor. Think about medical history, genetics, blood type, background, etc. You’ll also need to think about whether you want an anonymous or identified egg donor.

Are You Prepared for Egg Donor Surrogacy and Cost?

You can’t put a price on family, but because egg donation is such an intricate process, egg donor surrogacy can be an expensive process. In addition to surrogacy costs, you’ll want to have enough money set aside for all necessary costs. When you work with an agency that has an egg donor and surrogacy program, you may pay a lower cost than if you went through a separate agency.

Are you Prepared to Raise a Child Conceived from an Egg Donor and Surrogacy?

We know that you’ll love your child, regardless of their genetic makeup. But it’s important that you’re prepared for the unique challenges that come with raising a donor-conceived child. At some point, your child may ask about their surrogacy story and how they came to be. They may even have questions about who their donor was. You’ll want to be prepared to have these conversations.

Next Steps

If you have questions about the intricacies of egg donor and surrogacy programs, our specialists would be happy to answer them. Get connected with our surrogacy specialist today.