The surrogacy process can be a lot to handle on your own. Even though you’re the only one going through the surrogacy process, your family will also be impacted by your journey. When you’re considering becoming a surrogate, you may have a spouse or partner who isn’t on board with your decision.
A strong support system is an important part of the surrogacy journey as it involves a significant amount of time and commitment. If you want to be a surrogate but your husband doesn’t want you to be, then here’s what you need to know.
Learn more about what it takes to become a surrogate here. To speak with a surrogate specialist about potentially becoming a surrogate, contact us online now or text us at 913-204-0224.
Can I Be a Surrogate if My Spouse Doesn’t Support Me?
No, unfortunately, you cannot begin the process if your husband doesn’t want you to be a surrogate. You must have a strong support system in place when you become a surrogate. The surrogacy process involves emotional and physical challenges and handling it on your own can be overwhelming.
A supportive spouse plays a vital role in providing the necessary emotional and practical support throughout the surrogacy journey. We believe in the power of shared commitment and encourage potential surrogates to embark on this journey with a partner who is fully on board, ensuring a positive, fulfilling experience.
Why Your Spouse May Be Unsupportive
There may be many reasons why your husband doesn’t want you to be a surrogate.
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He’s worried about potential health risks
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He’s unsure of how being a surrogate will affect your family
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He concerned it will be an expensive process
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Misconceptions surrounding surrogacy have made him worried about you being taken advantage of
It’s natural for your partner to have apprehensions about the process. Addressing these concerns and understanding your partner’s perspective can help ease their worries, creating a supportive environment where your partner feels included in your decision to become a surrogate.
What to Do When Your Husband Doesn’t Want You to Be a Surrogate
Prioritize Open Communication
Open and honest conversation is key when you want to be a surrogate but your husband doesn’t. Start by expressing your feelings and motivations behind wanting to embark on this journey. Listen actively to their concerns and address them empathetically.
Share resources about the surrogacy process, ensuring they have a clear understanding of what it entails. When your husband doesn’t want you to be a surrogate, encourage open dialogue to create a space where your partner feels comfortable expressing their thoughts.
Highlight the Positives
When you want to be a surrogate but your husband doesn’t start by explaining some of the benefits of surrogacy. When you become a surrogate, you can earn $65,000 -$110,000 in surrogate compensation to significantly improve your life and your family’s lives. Talk about the different ways you can utilize this surrogate pay. Maybe you have plans to buy a house or have wanted to start a college fund for your child.
Let your husband know that this can be a reality when you become a surrogate. By emphasizing the benefits of becoming a surrogate, you can help your spouse learn more about the beauty of the surrogacy process.
Learn more about surrogate pay here.
Involve Your Spouse
Encourage your spouse to be involved in the process. When your husband doesn’t want you to be a surrogate, involving them can help them understand the realities of the process better. The more they understand and participate, the better equipped they’ll be to overcome worries and concerns.
We’re always available to help you explain surrogacy better to you husband who’s on the fence about surrogacy. We can provide comprehensive resources and support to help him understand the surrogacy process. Our goal is to help your husband feel more at ease so that you can embark on this life-changing journey with complete confidence.
If your husband is on the fence about your decision to become a surrogate, then contact us online now or text us at 913-204-0224. We’ll do our best to help them understand how beautiful the surrogacy process can be.