Can I be a Surrogate if My Spouse is an Alcoholic?

Can I be a surrogate if my spouse is an alcoholic? Find out if your spouse can affect your eligibility to be a surrogate with our guide.

The health and safety of our surrogates and the child they carry is our top priority. If your spouse is struggling with addiction, this could impact your ability to qualify for surrogacy.

If you find yourself contemplating surrogacy while your spouse is dealing with addiction, we can help you determine your eligibility.

Want to talk to a specialist about your eligibility? Contact us online now or text us at 913-204-0224 to connect with us.

Can I Be a Surrogate if My Spouse is an Alcoholic?

Unfortunately, you won’t be able to become a surrogate if your spouse is dealing with alcoholism. While you may meet our physical requirements, the presence of alcoholism in your spouse’s history can raise concerns for intended parents, impacting your overall eligibility to become a surrogate.

When you apply to be a surrogate, one of the things we look at is the safety and stability of your home environment. Alcoholism may raise concerns regarding the overall suitability of the living conditions for you and the baby you intend to carry.

Can You Be a Surrogate if Your Spouse is Addicted?

If your spouse is struggling with addiction, this can also have an impact on your overall eligibility. We prioritize the safety of all parties involved and addiction can have an effect on your living conditions. It’s important to be transparent with us when discussing your situation.

We can provide you with guidance on whether it’s possible to become a surrogate given your circumstances and can help you make a decision that prioritizes the health and stability of your family.

Why Can’t I Become a Surrogate if My Spouse Has a Drug Addiction?

Even if you meet our physical requirements to be a surrogate, many families won’t be comfortable with a surrogate whose spouse has a history of addiction.

This discomfort is based on ensuring a secure, nurturing environment for the child’s development. Although we know it can be frustrating, our main goal is to ensure that everyone is protected throughout the process. Our eligibility requirements are not meant to exclude but to safeguard all parties involved.

We believe in creating a positive and supportive surrogate experience, and these requirements contribute to achieving that goal.

I’m Not Eligible to Become a Surrogate, What Now?

If you don’t qualify to be a surrogate because of your spouse’s history of alcoholism, you can still be a part of a surrogacy journey through our referral program. By referring a friend who meets our eligibility criteria and successfully becomes a surrogate, you can receive $5,000+ in referral fees.

This allows you to contribute to the joy of surrogacy while still receiving meaningful income for your family. Here’s how our referral program works:

  • Step 1: Refer a friend who you think will make a great surrogate.

  • Step 2: They will go through our initial screening.

  • Step 3: Once approved, they’ll join our program and be matched with intended parents.

  • Step 4: You’ll receive a $5,000+ referral fee within 30 days of the embryo transfer.

While we may not be able to proceed with surrogacy if your spouse is struggling with alcoholism and addiction, we encourage you to reach out to us if your situation changes. We want nothing more than to help you become a successful surrogate.