If you’re here, it’s because you’re thinking about starting or growing your family through surrogacy — and you’ve probably run headfirst into the financial reality. Surrogacy is beautiful, powerful, life-changing... and undeniably is a large investment.
So it’s only natural to ask:
Is surrogacy financing a good idea? Is it responsible? Is it something people regret?
These are important questions. And the truth is, for many hopeful parents, financing is not just a smart move — it’s the bridge between “I hope” and “I’m finally holding my baby.”
At American Surrogacy, we’ve seen this play out again and again: families taking thoughtful, strategic steps toward parenthood, and financing building a bridge to overcome shortfalls.
We’re here to help you sort through your questions, your emotions, and your options. Because you deserve more than dreams on hold.
Take the First Step: Fill out this form to get personalized info on your surrogacy journey.
Are Fertility Loans a Good Idea?
When you hear “loan,” your mind might jump to caution. But let’s reframe the question.
We finance homes, cars, college degrees — all meaningful, long-term investments. Surrogacy is no different. It’s not an impulse buy. It’s the beginning of a new life. And it’s okay to treat it with the same financial planning and care you’d bring to any major life decision.
Financing makes sense when:
- You don’t want to empty your savings or retirement to start a family.
- You have a steady income and want predictable monthly payments.
- You’d rather move forward now than wait several more years to save.
The emotional return of moving forward sooner, meeting your child, and becoming a parent , often far outweighs the financial cost. And the cost of waiting? That can be just as real: emotionally, biologically, and financially.
Compare financing to paying cash and see what’s right for you.
Is Surrogacy Financing Right for Me?
Financing isn’t right for everyone. And that’s okay. The right choice is the one that fits your life.
Financing may be a good option if:
- You have room in your monthly budget for an affordable payment.
- You’re emotionally and logistically ready to move forward.
- You’d like to avoid disrupting your long-term savings or emergency funds.
It may not be the right fit if:
- You’re dealing with job instability or inconsistent income.
- You already carry a high debt load and feel stretched thin.
- A loan payment would cause daily stress instead of peace of mind.
The key to financing is recognizing it’s about making a clear-eyed decision that works for your reality, and knowing you have options.
Need help thinking it through? Our team is here to talk through your finances and goals.
Our Surrogacy Financing Partner: Sunfish
To make financing easier and more accessible for families like yours, American Surrogacy partners with Sunfish — a leading fertility financing platform built for journeys like yours.
What makes Sunfish different?
- You can explore offers with zero impact on your credit.
- You get access to multiple loan options, all in one application.
- You can receive real support from people who understand fertility financing.
How Do Surrogacy Payment Plans Work?
You don’t need to pay the full cost of surrogacy upfront. Here’s what a typical financing plan looks like:
- Estimate your budget — What can you comfortably pay each month?
- Apply through Sunfish — Compare multiple loan offers tailored to surrogacy and IVF.
- Select the best fit — Choose a lender, loan term, and interest rate that make sense for your future.
- Funds disbursed —Depending on the lender, financing can cover agency fees, surrogate compensation, clinic costs, legal expenses, and more.
- Repay over time — You’ll begin making predictable monthly payments (often as low as a car payment).
No massive upfront payment. No years of delay.
How to Apply for a Surrogacy Loan
The application process is straightforward — and our team is here to walk with you if you need help.
- Step 1: Visit Sunfish’s application page
- Step 2: Prequalify without affecting your credit
- Step 3: Review your offers and choose the one that fits
- Step 4: Upload documents and sign loan paperwork
- Step 5: Start your journey with peace of mind
You’re in control the whole way — and you’ll never be pressured to choose a loan that doesn’t feel right.
What to Expect When Financing Your Surrogacy Journey
It’s normal to feel nervous. After all, this isn’t just about money, it’s about your family and your future.
You might be asking:
- Will I feel trapped by monthly payments?
- Will people judge me for borrowing money to become a parent?
- What if I change my mind? What if it’s the wrong choice?
These questions are valid. And they don’t make you any less ready to be a parent. They make you human.
We are here to offer support as you move forward on your terms.
And the truth is: Many families who choose financing look back with gratitude, not regret. Because they got to meet their child sooner. Because they said yes to the moment they were ready — not the moment their savings account was.
Fertility Financing: A Strategic Way to Build Your Family
Financing doesn’t mean you're reckless or unprepared. It means you’re willing to find a path forward — even when the road is hard.
Surrogacy financing can empower you to take a step forward in your life. It means you’re ready to say, “I’m not waiting anymore.”
If you're ready to learn more, or just need a safe space to talk it through, we’re here, with all of the information and support you will need.
Fill out this form to get personalized support and explore your next steps.