How to Find a Surrogate Mother for a Gay Couple

As an LGBT couple, we know your path to parenthood hasn't been easy. When you work with us, you'll have no problem finding a qualified surrogate who will be by your side every step of the way.

Embarking on the journey to parenthood as an LGBT couple is now more possible than ever. Surrogacy offers a pathway to fulfilling your dreams of starting a family. Whether you're a same-sex male couple or a same-sex female couple facing fertility challenges, American Surrogacy is ready to help.

We’ll help you find a surrogate that not only matches your preferences, but who’s also screened and ready to help you start your family. Our dedicated staff with over 30 years of family-building experience knows what it takes to help fulfill your dreams of parenthood.

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5 Steps to Finding a Surrogate Mother for Gay Couples

Step 1: Get Started With American Surrogacy

Starting a life-changing journey can initially feel daunting, but with our guidance, you can count on a staff that’s there when you need them, providing personal attention every step of the way. You'll benefit from a streamlined process, financial transparency and comprehensive support from start to finish.

Our surrogacy specialists will guide you through our simple and efficient screening process, putting you one step closer towards finding a surrogate match. Together, we'll create a personalized surrogacy plan to find a surrogate that aligns with your goals. With our short wait times, you’ll find comfort knowing that you’re on the quickest path to parenthood.

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Step 2: Create an Intended Parent Profile

Once you've become an active family in the surrogacy process, the next step is to create an intended parent profile. This profile serves as a comprehensive portrayal of who you are as prospective parents and surrogacy partners. It outlines the kind of parents you aspire to be for your baby and provides insights into what you might be like as a surrogacy partner for your gestational carrier.

Your profile also offers surrogates a glimpse into your individual traits and passions, highlighting what you're like as a couple, showcasing the strength of your relationship and your shared values. Most importantly, the profile articulates the kind of relationship you envision having with your surrogate. Your intended parent profile serves as a personalized introduction, helping potential surrogates to connect with you on a deeper level.

Step 3: Find a Surrogate Through Our Program in An Average of 30-90 Days

We understand the importance of finding the perfect surrogate to help you realize your dream of parenthood. Our extensive network of surrogates undergoes thorough screening to ensure compatibility and suitability for the journey ahead. You'll have the opportunity to review surrogate profiles and select the candidate who aligns best with your values and preferences.

One of the advantages of working with us is we can help you find a surrogate within an average of 30-90 days. Through our 1:1 balanced list of surrogates and expansive marketing reach, we can expedite the matching process, allowing you to start your journey to parenthood sooner rather than later.

Step 4: Get to Know the Surrogate

As part of the surrogacy process, you'll have the opportunity to get to know the surrogate to ensure you've found the right fit for your journey. This allows you to establish a connection and confirm compatibility with your prospective surrogate. We facilitate this interaction through a conference call, providing a comfortable platform for open communication and mutual understanding.

Alternatively, if you prefer you can meet the surrogate in person, depending on where she resides. Whether through virtual meetings or face-to-face encounters, these interactions allow you to ask questions, share expectations and gauge compatibility, fostering trust and confidence in your surrogacy partnership.

Step 5: Sign Your Surrogacy Contract

Upon confirming the ideal surrogate match, our team and an attorney will help you draft a comprehensive surrogacy contract that outlines expectations and responsibilities for both parties. This contract serves as a vital foundation for the surrogacy journey, addressing potential risks and liabilities while establishing a clear protocol for unexpected circumstances.

Once the contract is signed, you can rest assured that the search process is complete, and you're one step closer to embracing parenthood. With our dedicated support and streamlined process, finding a surrogate is not only effortless but also secure, providing peace of mind as you embark on this life-changing journey to parenthood.

How We Help You Find an Egg Donor

If you’re a same-sex male couple starting your surrogacy journey, we understand the importance of finding the right egg donor to complete your family. With access to a vast network of trusted medical professionals and fertility specialists, we can help you find an egg donor that aligns with your preferences and needs.

Whether you're looking for specific genetic traits or simply seeking a compatible match, we are committed to helping you find the perfect egg donor to fulfill your dream of parenthood.

With our national marketing reach, short wait times and unwavering support, we can help you get one step closer to building the family of your dreams.

Contact us today to take the first step toward finding a surrogate.